Ok so happy yet so very sad!

Prayin_4_twinsPrayin_4_twins
edited April 2011 in Trying to conceive
I'm so happy yet so sad :( just found out my younger cousin (our weddings were 2 months apart ;) ) is prego.....I am so excited for her & her husband , but I'm sitting hear crying & can't stop. I know everyone loves me & just want to be comforting, but hearing, it will happen for you just makes me more sad :( this is the depression I was hoping to avoid. I am praying that in the next 3 months I can drop quite a bit of weight & have a great endometrium biopsy result. Hopefully between diet & exercise, megestrol, & metformin....I will be a great carrier for an egg ;)

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  • fmcnealfmcneal
    I'm sorry you are so sad I wish I could say something very comforting. Good luck with the diet and everything I hope it all work out for you. I feel sad for you with having a hard time. I will pray for you that it will go fast.
  • vanalkrvanalkr
    you can do it! i know you can! u want a baby sooo badly and i know u have what it takes to get ur body to a point that it can give u what u are begging for! still praying for you daily...dont give up or get upset...He knows the timing of ur life!
  • mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
    YOU WILL BE A GREAT CARRIER and don't you forget it! get determined and make it happen, i know that you can... i see it in your heart! But i know it's tough... my friend at work was a month ahead of me when i was preggers and her belly is growing bigger and bigger and the time is getting closer. And it seems like everyone around me is also getting baby beans. But we can't give up, and we can't over stress it! HAVE FAITH, it will happen and you'll do great!!! =D>
  • AKmommyAKmommy
    @Prayin_4_twins hope this isn't controversial to say but have you heard of the HCG diet? You take drops of HCG (crazy but it is actually the pregnancy hormone) daily and you can only eat 500 calories in a day. If you do this for 40 days you can drop about a pound a day. I have watched multiple women do this at work. They take vitamins to make up for lost nutrients and eat a lot healthier and I'm sure there is reasons not to do this diet, but it can be prescribed by your doctor. As a matter of fact most of the women get it that way. It can be very challenging to do it since it takes so much discipline, but if you need to lose weight this may be the way to do it. On top of that, it makes you fertile for some reasons and has made several girls pregnant almost right after treatment, even on bc. I know this may be something other women think isn't right or safe but you could ask your doc about it, might give you a better chance :) You're such a great chick(even though I only know you on here) so I wish there was something I could do to help so maybe this can? not sure but I would ask, can't hurt if a doc says its okay- good luck!!! and TONS of baby dust to you :X
  • AKmommyAKmommy
    ps. I'm small but it still took a year to get preggo, as soon as I stopped thinking I was pregnant every single month then bam all of a sudden I was pregnant. I didn't even believe it at first :)
  • Prayin_4_twinsPrayin_4_twins
    @tiff87124 Nope no PCOS. I've got hyperplaysia & hyperestrogenism
  • Prayin_4_twinsPrayin_4_twins
    @fmcneal Thank you that means alot!
  • Prayin_4_twinsPrayin_4_twins
    @vanalkr Thank you hun! I know I just need to stay positive. & be patient. The hard part is last time I taked to her she didn't even want to think about having babies right now :'(
  • armywife0529armywife0529
    I kinda know how you feel. I had a miscarriage last year and found out my 17 year old cousin was pregnant. I was pretty depressed for a while. I know its hard, but try to be patient. Almost exactly a year later, I was pregnant.
  • Prayin_4_twinsPrayin_4_twins
    @mrsrocketfield1221 Thank you sweetie!!! I am sorry to hear about what your going through. If you ever need someone to talk to just msg me ;)
  • Prayin_4_twinsPrayin_4_twins
    @armywife0529 Hun I'm sorry to hear about your loss, but Congrats on your lil bundle!!! Thank you for the encouragement.
  • missLisaJanemissLisaJane
    My advice.... stop trying so hard it really does work!! I used to be so upset every month when when i realised i wasnt preg, crying thinking i was useless! U need to be at peace with yourself otherwise ur stressing out 2 the max which can affect ur ovulation, believe me its easier said than done hun i understand totally what ur going through but it will happen as i found out when u least expect it, hope everything turns out for u!
  • dec12sohappydec12sohappy
    When I was trying to get pregnant I tested every month! Wasted tons of money on hpt...I'm telling you stop trying and let it happen it will make you feel so much better. And wouldn't it be amazing to not even try and next thing you know your period doesn't come and your pregnant. That's how it happens once you stop trying good luck.
  • Sgt_Hales_BabiesSgt_Hales_Babies
    @prayin_4_twins Through the 4 years it took us, it seemed like every week someone besides me was pregnant. And even though they mean well, it feels like they're always talking about it and telling you how its gonna happen for you too. I could've strangled a few if them! Hope things work out for you and when you're ready, you'll be a great mobile baby oven!
  • brodysmammabrodysmamma
    edited April 2011
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  • brodysmammabrodysmamma
    @akmommy hcg is how I got pregnant. I think. I was on BC and have no other explanation. It used to be used to help women get pregnant a long time ago. So yes I think it does help with getting pregnant lol.
    @paying_4_twins I am on the opposite end of That my best friend has had two MC and really wanted to have a baby I got pregnant on accident and unfortunately lately it has effected our friendship. She just called me today to talk about. I've left her alone and I feel bad talking about my pregnancy with her (even though I really want to). And when she said She wanted to throw the baby shower as much as I want her to I don't want it to hurt her because I know how upset she has been. I did agree to let her but Idk how to make our friendship better. I hope that you and your cousin will still be close. And I'm sure she feels just as bad.i didn't want to tell my best friend at first because I knew it would hurt her. Good luck and Idk your situation but if you need to talk I'm here. And also lots of baby dust. Good luck.
  • AKmommyAKmommy
    @Samantha that's great! unless you didn't want to become preggo at that point.lol It seems to make the women I know extra fertile and two became preggo on bc while taking it :)
  • Prayin_4_twinsPrayin_4_twins
    @AKmommy I think I'm going to try em. I'm researching it now, I'm hoping I can get it @ a good price. Thanks for the advice ;)
  • 4senough4senough
    So sorry you're feeling low right now. Wish I could help, just know I think about you and I'm praying for your health.
  • brodysmammabrodysmamma
    Good luck girly. I hope it comes soon for you. :)
  • a1kyndriaa1kyndria
    @akmommy HCG causes hyperovulation in women which has many risk factors like hormone imblances even though you will ovulate more than 1 egg in a month...it also increases the likelihood of multiple births. The trick to the diet itself has nothing to do with the hcg it is eating only 500 calories a day which is considered self starvation. I actually did this diet and lost some weight but just like all the other fad dits out there it is too good to be true and does great damage to your body...weight hs no magic secert answer eating healthy, exercising and the sound advice of a doctor are the best bet especially if you want the best environment possible to carry a child in
  • Prayin_4_twinsPrayin_4_twins
    Could taking the drops & doing 1000 cals be ok? We want a multiple birth ;) If it happens if it doesn't I am fine w/ miracle God gives us!
  • hubz1stbaybayhubz1stbaybay
    I can relate to how u feel. I had a mc then a d& c in Jan.7 2010 well we knew thee baby wasntt alive through christmas, well my hubbys cousin told everyone she was pg on new years day and then looked at me and said sorry...I was still pg with a non viable baby! So I can see how u would feel. Well on feb.7 2011 a year and month later to the day after my d&c I got pregnant it felt like forever but it will happen.
  • Prayin_4_twinsPrayin_4_twins
    @hubz1stbaybay :( oh my!!! Wow, now I just think that is so wrong! Oh hun I am sorry to hear that! When I txt my cousin to ask her if she had a secret, she said yes & then I replied Yeah! Congrats! We can't get prego for like 3 months bc of all my problems they found during my biopsy. But now I feel awful, I should have have just been happy & not said anything about me. But your cousin shouldn't had been so insensitive to you :(
  • hubz1stbaybayhubz1stbaybay
    @prayin_4_twins I just blew it off look at the bright side in the end I will have the NEW BABY hers will be old news lol. And I don't kno if I would b wishing for twins girl u might really get that lol and eww im scared of twins lol u would need alot of help lol.
  • Jess510Jess510
    1200 should be the min calorie intake
  • a1kyndriaa1kyndria
    Yea I have to say mutliple births blow my mind twins boy and boy run in my husbands family and boy girl run in my family. My mil was on bedrest for the last 3 mons of her pregnancy with twins...on ur body that's a lot of damage
  • Prayin_4_twinsPrayin_4_twins
    My aunt had twin boys in 79 (they are the oldest grandchildren) They could not be more opposite (they are fraternal (they look nothing alike) & don't act like twins @ all! My aunt didn't even know she was having twins till 2 weeks before she delivered. I think she got prego on the honeymoon with one and then prego a few days later ir something, I do not believe they were conceived at the same time. Any way (sorry to get off subject) But ever since I was young I have wanted twins! I would ask my mom to buy me two if the same doll & since I was an only child (for eight yrs till my parents & I were blessed with my bro) she would & I always dressed them alike but different colors etc ;) I think twins (multiples) are a blessing, well any baby is a true blessing from God!
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