emotional moments

adriens_mommyadriens_mommy
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
So today i was unpacking my boxes i just moved into my new house and all my things smelled like my previous apartment that i shared with my ex, the babys Dad. He left me when i found out i was pregnant and thats why i am moved out.anyways my stuff had our homey smell and it reminded me of how much i loved him and loved our home we created and i just broke down crying :( i really miss him we were together for 5 years and i still dont understand why he broke my heart the way he did . Anyone else have any hilarious or not so hilarious emotional crying outbursts?

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  • mcardonamcardona
    My boyfriend rather spend time with his frienda then spend time with me. Its been over a year, which cant compare to your 5 years but I burst out in tears because it hurts to feel abandoned yet they dont show a single tear while were shedding ours away. When I am occupying myself with other things it feels awesome and hes off my mind. Throw in his face what hes missing out on.
  • adriens_mommyadriens_mommy
    edited February 2011
    I would love to show him all the amazing things hes missing out on like ultrasound pics (he hasnt cared to see one single picture) or to feel the kicks or buying baby clothes and other items he wont answer my calls or letters he hasnt seen me since i was only 11 weeks he doesnt even care to know the sex WILL SOMEONE EXPLAIN TO ME WHY I MISS THIS PERSON SO MUCH WHEN ALL HES DONE IS HURT ME THIS WHOLE PREGNANCY
  • mcardonamcardona
    I understand. I still love my bf but he treats me as if im not his priority now. The next letter he ahould recieve concerning you should be child support although that would require him to sign the birth certificate. You dont need a man to keep you happy.
  • adriens_mommyadriens_mommy
    So if he doesnt come sign the certificate (because i doubt he will even be there for the birth ) then i cant get child support? Cant a court order a dna test to put his name on the bc?
  • mcardonamcardona
    Yes they can also do that as well. The process may be a little long. But youll need the help and extra money for your child you both deserve.
  • adriens_mommyadriens_mommy
    Well i don't need his money i make really good money i am able to have my beautiful house and an amazing nursery i will support my baby and then some perfectly fine without him but yes he absolutely will pay for his son he thinks he can just bail out on his responsibilities when he wants to and his parents raised him to be spoiled like that i have to teach him and my son how to be a man why do women have so much responsibilities and jobs to do i guess it will make me stronger but i feel really overwhelmed and sad weak right now i just cant stop missing his hugs and waiting for him to get home from work and going on road trips to cali all the time he was the man i was going to marry and all of a sudden hes packing his stuff and telling me he doesnt want a baby and he is going to live at his parents i just dont get it
  • rootzmamarootzmama
    Did u ever say any of this to him? Ask him why a child has he throwing everything away? Thats just pathetic. im really sorry honey. If u are completely willing to embrace your pregnancy and love the baby the best u can, and hes not even willing to try...that doesnt sound like a verygood match to me. Just think you will soon have a bundle of joy to replace your exs hugs ;) and there are plenty of men out there who will see a strong determined woman who can make it on her own even in such a tough position. Good luck!
  • hannahsmomhannahsmom
    You are better off having him sign his rights away as soon as the baby is born because you don't want him to just show up one day and try to fight you for custody. A really close friend of mine is going through that now. She is devistated because the court ordered him visitation so she couldn't even really breast feed.
  • adriens_mommyadriens_mommy
    I havent thought of that before his family are the really controling type and if he all of a sudden sought custody i know his parents would be behind it not him he wants nothing to do with having a kid in our lives he wants to be a child free partier for ever
  • adriens_mommyadriens_mommy
    He wants to be charlie sheen on 2 and a half men!
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