help please
Ok I know hormones r crazy right now & I tend to overreact. Ok my hubby has been talking about this women he works with almost every since he went to 1st shift. About 5 mo. She is 46 (hubby 26 me 24) so yeah she is older then us but by no means what I consider old. So it had started bothering me well he let me keep his phone one day it's a Droid & I like to listen to audio books on it while I clean. Well I decided 2 get on a site called Dexter topics that my hubby likes to get on sometimes. Saw a thread that was talking about his company laying people off well @ the bottom it said the name of stuff he posts under well @ the end of the thread someone asks " who is that hott middle aged women with brn hair with the nice body that works in converters?" (My hubby is s welder) The name it said my hubby posted under said "2640 line Lisa walker" that got me so worked up cuz she doesn't work in converters &even I knew that. So I asked him about it he said he didn't post it that it is the last name of a guy he worked with well I looked @ the date it was posted & we were @ my parents during vacation he is the only 1 that had his phone. So I said something about it again & I had to corner him with it to get him to admit to posting it. Then I asked him y he lied 2 me he said cuz he knew I would get upset about it. Oh & I'm supposed to b thrilled that he lied to me. So I asked him y he even posted it he knew she didn't work there he said just being dumb. I dont know what to believe. I don't think he has cheated on me but I'm scared something is happening between them. Am I overreacting?
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With my husband, he was "buddies" with one of the gen. Manager. Everyday he would come home talking about this girl, and telling me how he goes n gets breakfast for her n himself and how she asks him for "advice". I blew up. I told him either u cut the cord or i will cut it for u.lol. .i told him that just cuz hes married doesnt meab there aint homewreckers out there. He said shes married though, then y isnt she talking about personal to her man then. Come to find out recently she knew she was "getting close" with my hubby and that is why yhe coworkers were jealous of her. I was like wtheck! And then my hubby said " i never said she was married."
your very pretty!! Do not down grade yourself. I hope you and your husband stay on track.