Mothers of toddlers and prego

crazyhmommycrazyhmommy
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
I'm due in 5 weeks and im worried about my first born, she is about to be 1, but im worried because I dunno how shes gonnya be with the new baby. I dont want her to feel left out or pushed aside and im so afraid that I wont feel the same way towards my new baby cause I dunno how I can love another child this much. I couldnt live without my daughter, and I already love my soon to be daughter but whatif its not the same or I dunno, so what I'm actually asking is how did or are you 2nd time moms doing it, were yall afraid like me? I want my children to feel as much live as they can I want to be the best mom I can be.

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  • due_in_julydue_in_july
    i havent had my second baby yet but my first is 3 and i feel the same way. i just plan to keep him as involved and make sure that when the baby is asleep to play and give as much attention to him as possible. im gonna be one tired momma. also im having my hubby take two weeks off work to get him fully adjusted.
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  • gsmommygsmommy
    I feel the exact same way! my son is two and its hard to imagine being able to love both equally, and to make sure they get equal attention...i think we will figure it out though :)
  • roomfor1moreroomfor1more
    My daughter will b 18mons when I have her brother n I already know she's not gonna b happy... if I hold any other child she has a problem... I know it'll take awhile to warm to the baby my problem is thinking she's gonna put her food in his mouth when my head is turned (she's fast smh)
  • snredasnreda
    MY daughters almost 4 and I have a 9 month old. They have loved eachother from day 1. my oldest can't wait for the new baby!
  • smileymummysmileymummy
    my soon was only 1 wen my 2nd was born, i found it helped to bring a pressent home for the older child. a gift from the new baby, so if i was busy changinf or feedin new baby, he coould play with new toy. now my kids are 3+4 + laugh at me for having morning sickness. askin if the babys kuckin to make me sick. ha. kids easily adjust dont worry ladys
  • crazyhmommycrazyhmommy
    @due_in_july I plan that as well if I can stay awake.
    @isiahnjocelynsmommy that sounds like a good plan I really dont want my little one to feel,left out I might steal that idea lol
    @roomfor1more u eorry about that too, that and hopefully she dont try to play with her sister like she does her dolls, she throws them aroind and bites them lol
    @snreda I hope mine are the same way
    @smileymummy that sounds good as well , really hadnt thought of that. My lil one does love to play miight have to steal a few of yalls ideas lol. Thanks all for the comments and congrats on the new babies, and for us worriers I think we can do it, its hard to see how still till it happens.
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