What would you do?! (lil long)

edited April 2011 in Pregnant
I started my new job on Tuesday after interviewing 2wice last week...he (the President of the company/1 that interviewed me) was a lil weird cause after the last interview, he gave me a really big hug...almost like he he knew me & hadn't seen me in years...I found it kinda weird but I didnt pay too much mind to it...He made the job seem like it was something out of this world...Like everybody wanted it...He said he had so much power & that I had no idea what 'door I had opened'...He kept me in suspense for 3 days not knowing how much i was gonna get payed...At the end of the day, it was a job that was nothing out of this world, regular office work thats nothing im not used to...job title is office manager/operations manager...he told me that i would be surprised at how much i was gonna get payed...he continued with his 'weird' ways thru out these few days but again, i payed no mind to it...i never mentioned 2 him i was preggo...so 2day, its just us in his office & he's giving me some work 2 do...mind u, i still dont know how much im being payed...then out of no where he puts his hands on my stomach & says 'are u pregnant'?! i says 'no'...he says 'dont lie, are u pregnant'?! (all while having a smirk on his face) i said 'no, not that i know of'...i brushed off his hand but then he put his arm behind my back & pulled me closer 2 him...im standing, he's sitting...i tried 2 back away but he would insist with his movements...so a few hours after that, he tells me how much im gonna start being payed; $13/hr...i know thats not bad, but by the way he was making it seem, you would have sworn that it was gonna be a lot more...yesterday i had said something that was funny 2 him & said 'gimme one', while pointing at his cheek! meaning he wanted a kiss!!! i know this has nothing 2 do with a preggo question, but i would appreciate you alls opinions...i havent had a job since last june...im 14wks preggo...bd is in the process of opening a business but that takes a while...im broke as hell...i already feel super uncomfortable working there...i told my bd & he wants 2 go over there & break his face...he doesnt want me going over there anymore...should i just send him an email & tell him i cant work there anymore?! should i sue!? i really dont want to cause i dont have it in my heart 2 do something like that...im just really stressed out & need some advice...sorry so long :/

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  • Um, if its that weird already, and u literally just started... i would either find something else or atleast drop him a serious hint.. if u pay 'no mind' to it he will just keep doing that, men arent that smart.. lol. Thats a bit ridiculous. Maybe hes gay? Even still, very inappropriate for the pres!
  • That's sounds like harassment to me. You should tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and that your not a touchy person. That you'd like to keep your job, but not like that.
  • @newmom2be23 he's deff not gay...he's actually married to a 23yrs old woman...he's in his late 40's...he gave me a job to do: find him a lady that will do a massage at a house...not a spa! she has to be 'beautiful'...
  • Ok, creeper.. big time.. i would either report him, or quit. But before quitting i'd def give him an earful.13/hr is nice but its not worth dealing with that everyday!
  • @MarinesAngel thats what i started saying 2day!! in the beginning he made it seem like he was the man! like i was never gonna find another job like that...like he has so much power and rank...that theres a lot of opportunity there...but i guess he noticed i wasnt giving in, so i feel like he gave me $13/hr just cause he wanted 2 know...like if i would be down 4 whatever he has going on, he would pay me more...wtf!? it aint that typa party!!! i feel like he used me in thinking that he can hire me & possibly become his job site GF...he's really fresh...
  • @newmom2be23 im tellin you! the way he played his game with me is just too weird, thinking back now, it all makes sense...i think imma just send him an email & ask him 2 plz pay me 4 the days that i worked...
  • I would get him fired. Sexual harrassment not legal.
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  • Is there an HR dept? Sic them on his sexually abusive ass if you just send an email he's just going to keep doing this to the next girl then the next. If they don't I'm not actually sure who that kind of thing should be reported to.
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