if pgnt & scared re: life with a newborn

SalasMommySalasMommy
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
so i had my son on 3-17 it was the most wonderful day of my life!! I had been so afraid while pgnt. i was worried i wouldn't be a good mother, if i would be gentle enough to take care of something so little and fragile, i also was worried about divorce way down the line of life. (i am newly married 7_28_09 at 17yrs) im 18 now. ?y parents got a divorce so that was something i was always thinking about. regardless off all my fears as soon as i gave birth i knew exactly how to hold him :) how to feed him and how gentle to be to him. I don"t regret anything! And i love how my day consist of bfeeding every two hours, picking out clothes and little shoes, making diaper bags, feeling so needed, and giving so much love. ladies dnt abort or give away for adoption when u have him/her in your arms you will know everything. good luck ladies

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  • bella312bella312
    <3
  • mysticmystic
    Aww congrats on your baby boy! >:D<
  • SalasMommySalasMommy
    @mystic thank you very much
  • mysticmystic
    Your welcome! This is my 2nd baby my son is almost 10 so its like starting all over again ;))
  • KrazymomofAdrianKrazymomofAdrian
    Thank you so much for this post. I think I am ready to be a mom, but at the same time I am terrified. Your post gave me some reassrance. Congrats on being a mom and your new baby boy. What's his name?
  • KrazymomofAdrianKrazymomofAdrian
    I am 20 by the way.
  • SalasMommySalasMommy
    @KrazymomofAdrian yeah i mean i think we r scared throughout our whole pregnancy just constantly worried and thinking. im glad it gave u some reassurance :) && thank you his name is Steven Jacob Salas i named him Steven like his dad :) my sister in law had her baby on the 23rd and named her son Adrian as well. is this ur first?
  • KrazymomofAdrianKrazymomofAdrian
    Yea first with a little girl. We didn't know I was pregnant til 4.5 months, so we have had a lot to think about and do in a short time. I am excited. I can't wait to hold her. So thanks again. Oh gosh now I am crying. Damn hormones. Lol. P.s. I am due on 4 days. Good luck to you, your husband, and your baby Steven. :X :)
  • keeleabkeeleab
    Im due in july, im married 2 im 18 , I have those same fears about divorce when did your fears stop with that
  • keeleabkeeleab
    Im due in july, im married 2 im 18 , I have those same fears about divorce when did your fears stop with that
  • SalasMommySalasMommy
    @KrazymomofAdrian wow i wanted a little girl!! lucky. wow i thought about it my whole pregnancy i cant imagine what it must have been like to have less time!! it will all be ok :) and i think the moms that worry while pregnant are the good mommas :) good luck to u too! 4dys is not a long time
    @keeleab well they didn't really completly stop i just decided that i was not going to ever give up on my marriage for the sake of my son. my husband and i both were very scared having been through divorces. so we decided that we cant just up and leave when we get angry. we understand each other and when we fight we just give each other time to cool off and apoligize when nessasary and when at fault. we have grow up so much but still got a long way to go im 18 and hes 24 i have been with him since 15 so i think i did alot of growing up and u will too
  • SalasMommySalasMommy
    @mystic wow u are starting all over again its good that u gave them a long span the older boy got the attention he needed now the baby will too
  • KrazymomofAdrianKrazymomofAdrian
    That is awesome that you are open and honest with your husband. Me and my bd have decided that we are,gonna be civil if we ever do split for Adrian's sake. And yea it was definately a shock lol, but I wouldn't change it neither would bd.
  • mysticmystic
    @stevenjsalas_mommy it wasn't by choice to wait that long I have had a hard time ttc and 3 MC. This new baby is a surprise. =) this will me our last beings I will be 35 this yr lol
  • SalasMommySalasMommy
    @KrazymomofAdrian yeah i mean its healthy to talk about what ifs you know it is never good to believe the fairy tale i mean we all hope it would work out :) im in love with my husband and as a mom i know i have a responsibility to give my son what i never had a dad but of course if it is impossible we would b better off. but for now and i hope for a long time its going beautifully
  • SalasMommySalasMommy
    @mystic oh i am so sorry i too experienced a mc 4.14.09 it was reall painful i never thought i could get pgnt again and i concivd 7.10.10 can u believe it? more than a yr later i was preggo again. :) im sure that all will go well this time :) i wish u the best of luck
  • SalasMommySalasMommy
    @mystic oh i am so sorry i too experienced a mc 4.14.09 it was reall painful i never thought i could get pgnt again and i concivd 7.10.10 can u believe it? more than a yr later i was preggo again. :) im sure that all will go well this time :) i wish u the best of luck
  • keeleabkeeleab
    Thanks for the advice I trust him I just worry alot 2 much but now im trying 2 think positively more often
  • SalasMommySalasMommy
    @keeleab thats great things will all get better ull see we just worry too much && ur welcome
  • KrazymomofAdrianKrazymomofAdrian
    @mystic I am sorry you had such a hard time ttc. Thats why I treasure my girl as much as possible because so much could have gone wrong during those 4 months. Good luck with your little one and to your 10 year old. Sending good vibes your way. >:D<
  • SalasMommySalasMommy
    Agree. ;)
  • mysticmystic
    @stevenjsalas_mommy and @krazymomofadrain thank you so far so good where 14 weeks 3 days today! Wish both of you the best also. >:D< >:D<
  • preggointxpreggointx
    awww congrats
  • SalasMommySalasMommy
    @preggointx thank you
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