Im just sad... Emotionally,physically,mentally..

Expectin_myy2ndExpectin_myy2nd
edited April 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
When things are good they are good but man when they are bad they just plain out suck.

I even thought he'd be proud of me i got a promotion at work but he acts like its no big deal.. I tell him to feel the baby move and he says he felt it with our first.. I try and hold his hand he finds a way to pull away from me.. I dnt remember the last time hes just showed affection towards me.. I got my hair done,toes done and everything just for him and hes not interested. I cnt help but feel soooo depressed and unloved.. Help!

Comments

  • MommyAgainMommyAgain
    Im sorry to hear u are feeling this way.... I wish i knew what to say to make things all better. Im here if u want to vent...sometimes just letting it all out helps....
  • Expectin_myy2ndExpectin_myy2nd
    Thank u @mommyagain but I would have to write u an essay to feel better.. I just wish I had one of those guys who understood and loved me when I needed him the most..
  • MommyAgainMommyAgain
    Mine is an idiot most days too...especially since we dont live together... He can care less if i don't eat or am puking all day..... Most men are just insensitive bastards. ...Its like a birth defect or something stored in the ball sack i think. ..Lol
  • Expectin_myy2ndExpectin_myy2nd
    Haha I agree 110% he wasnt like this with our first in my heart I think hes upset its another boy bcuz he wanted a girl.. Im just sad I dnt understand what im doing wrong. Atleast u get your space we live together and when im crying just to know hes right in the next room & dsnt even come to check on me makes me that much more depressed..
  • MommyAgainMommyAgain
    I can see how that would make u more depressed. Id be a screaming hollering psycho bitch. ....Its not Ur fault its a boy.....his sperm made that determination..... Do something for you...not for him...(like u said u got Ur hair done and stuff) make itself feel special even when he doesn't. Ur growing a precious baby boy and deserve something to make u smile.....
  • Expectin_myy2ndExpectin_myy2nd
    Well to him im depressin to b around and annoyin because im very sensitive this pregnancy.. I told him that hes the one that carrys the sex determination, but yes Im very happy I get to feel my lil man kick that's what makes me the most happiest..
    Does your bd go with you to your appointments?
  • MommyAgainMommyAgain
    I can't wait to feel the kicks! He only has gone to one... Yesterdays Nuchal screening. ...He will also go to the u/s that determines sex....but that's it. I wish he would go but then again most appointments are lame... Lol how far along are u? Ur picture looks just like mine that i got yesterday...just flipped. Lol
  • Expectin_myy2ndExpectin_myy2nd
    Yea theee other appointments are pointless riiight now lol but I still wish he'd go with me to hear the heartbeat and I am 20 weeks almost 21.. Wbu??

    That pictures old lol I dnt have time to change it haha
  • MommyAgainMommyAgain
    Im only 13weeks2days.... Yeah i begged mine to go to the ultrasound appointments in hopes he would get a little more into the pregnancy...ours is very very very unexpected....i have two teens from prior marriage.....he has 3 from prior marriages....we've been together for 8 years....but for the past 9 i was told i was no longer fertile....fine by us! I was done! So was he! but somehow one supersperm and one lonely determined egg met and made this baby....after the initial shock wore off Im elated.... Happy to be a mommy again....
  • MommyAgainMommyAgain
    Him......not so much. Annoys the crap outta me.... Must be the ball sack syndrome
  • second_time_mommy7second_time_mommy7
    Omg it must be asshole week! I'm in our guest room balling my eyes out while he's in our bed snoring awaiting the brick I'm about to throw at his head lol I f'in hate men.
  • cbr_girrliecbr_girrlie
    Lol@ ball sack syndrome! Must be asshole week!
  • Expectin_myy2ndExpectin_myy2nd
    @mommyagain well I wanted the second one and sex without a condom who protests to that he never said he didnt want this baby but he thinks its toooo soon but im not on anything and we dnt use condoms so he cnt say anything..
    Ahah ignoring works because now hes trying to b lovey dovey but my hormones won't let me im tooo stubborn..
  • Expectin_myy2ndExpectin_myy2nd
    @second_time_mommy7 ahhh yes guys cant and will never understand what its lile to carry a child but boy would I love to trade places for a day
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