This had nothing to do with fingercrossed (moderator) it was a statement of crossing my fingers. Seriously people, I was TALKING ABOUT MY MOTHER!!! QUIT FISHING FOR DRAMA!!!
"I feel the same way, but they're slowly weeding out the 'bad' ones, so I figure I'll stick around a bit longer, the nice ones are super nice&supportive, so fingers crossed the loony ones will all be gone very soon! Some just need to realize that this isn't a place to preach, harp or judge; rather support, understand&be there for one another. "
She wasnt talking about fingerscrossed.. She was just stating she had her fingers crossed for the 'bad' ones to be kicked off..
No I think she was say she has her fingers crossed that they would get rid of the "bad" people. I didn't see that being directed towards fingers crossed the mod
FOR THE RECORD--I ADORE FINGERSCROSSED (MODERATOR)
I don't see why you guys are so set on making us moderators look like bad guys. If you had of read the discussion you would clearly see I was not in any way talking badly of Heather @fingerscrossed. I didn't even KNOW her then.
Meaning I need to be banned?? I was stating I wasn't speaking ill of @fingerscrossed. The person who posted this was looking for something to say I did wrong. When I clearly did not. How is that a drama starter on MY part?!
@mrsdelrae- why are you even arguing with everyone? going back & forth is only causing more of a problem.. because you say something & they feel they need to & so on & so forth... your a mod, why wouldnt you just close this instead of instigating more of a problem?
if this was any of the other members, we would have already been banned for doing what your doing.. how is that fair!?!!? [-X
Omg....apparently we ladies have nothing better to do then start drama. The mods have every right to delete ppl that are disrespectful. And ppl who create drama. So please stop the immature posts. Stop fishing for drama that apparently isn't there. Get on with your lives and help.the ladies who need questions answered and concerns with their pregnancy. This forum is to help us and for us ladies to keep in contact. This goes for all us ladies we are adults and yes some teenagers but still we know what respect means. So respect each other. This post ive made is about the other posts I saw dealing with making fun of the mods and complaining and fishing for drama. I mean no harm with this all being said just that we know what respect is so lets start respecting each other please.
Accusing me of doing things I did NOT do is uncalled for, disrespectful & rude. Someone is fishing for issues. I have had enough. This is ridiculous. It is plain & clear I wasn't saying anything bad about @fingerscrossed in any way. Yet, people went as far as to do something this low. Just because I am a moderator doesn't mean I don't have feelings. Be logical here; wouldn't it upset you as well?
@new_mommy905 good point an well said. @number2ontheway exactly the mods do hav evry right to remove prople that are rude an disrespectful..but that shldnt gve them the authority to b rude or disrespectful themselves..or removing some1 cuz of personal feelings... jus sayn
@bree2washington08 We have never removed someone due to personal vendettas. Ever. Just because the offensive comments are no longer there (we do edit/delete to avoid future issues) doesn't mean they weren't made or it is ignored. We aren't required to give warnings nor multiple warnings, but we do out of respect. After a member is warned, they choose to ignore it, that is when further action is taken. We always have a reason/validation for the actions we take. We talk amongst each other in a message of all of us to decide what route we want to take. If it seems otherwise, my apologies, but that is how it really works.
I was just saying to read it to see what y'all got out of it... it was brought to my attention something was said... wasn't saying anyone was wrong or right... this is an example of all the crap that has been going on... no harm or fingers were pointed in any way??? I just asked a question...
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It's this discussion (http://www.pregnancythisweek.com/forum/discussion/2873/trigger-happy#Item_31). @mrsdelrae's comment was in early February. I did not join the Pregly bunch until February 27th, and I was not made a moderator until recently.
She wasnt talking about fingerscrossed.. She was just stating she had her fingers crossed for the 'bad' ones to be kicked off..
I don't see why you guys are so set on making us moderators look like bad guys. If you had of read the discussion you would clearly see I was not in any way talking badly of Heather @fingerscrossed. I didn't even KNOW her then.
I know right how ironic is that but then again that was before the mods so....
if this was any of the other members, we would have already been banned for doing what your doing.. how is that fair!?!!? [-X
@number2ontheway exactly the mods do hav evry right to remove prople that are rude an disrespectful..but that shldnt gve them the authority to b rude or disrespectful themselves..or removing some1 cuz of personal feelings... jus sayn