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mommysbabyboymommysbabyboy
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
So is it me or do I have other ladies that feel like sometimes the bf is pulling away from me....I feel like he doesn't want to be bothered at times and we've been together going on 3 years and we live together....maybe its just me cause I'm prego and the hormones are acting crazy or maybe its real....marriage we talk about and he ignores the question....am I doing something wrong....he says that he's not ready but I don't know what we waiting on....and he always states that he's not doing anything cause he know how I am but I don't know what to think

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  • KayleighAnnKayleighAnn
    I know how you feel :/ my husband seems to pull away too :/ i hate it. Especially since he's in Texas for the Air Force. I love him so much but sometimes it really hurts with how he makes it seem like he doesn't want our baby :'( and the baby was his idea originally :/ it really hurts i feel for you girl! I really hope things get better for you!
  • mommysbabyboymommysbabyboy
    Me too....we weren't tryna get pregnant but we didn't prevent it either cause I was in the middle of changing my birth control meds....I hope he changes cause I he sad and depressed all the time cause I feel like he don't want me or the baby but at times he can be so sweet to me....and i lovehim to death I'm just scared I guess
  • KayleighAnnKayleighAnn
    I'm sure he'll come around :) the best thing to do is to stay positive :) how far along are you?
  • mommysbabyboymommysbabyboy
    28 weeks
  • KayleighAnnKayleighAnn
    Has he been interested in the doc apps or decorating the nursery?
  • mommysbabyboymommysbabyboy
    Well we are trynna find a bigger apartment and he works when I go to the appointments but he calls and finds out what goes on or what the doctor says....e agreed to say the days he would really need to take off
  • KayleighAnnKayleighAnn
    It would be great if he could go to the doc with you. Then he hears the babys heart for himself and gets to see the baby with his own eyes.
  • FirstBabyOnTheWayFirstBabyOnTheWay
    I feel the same way. It seems like he's pulling away but then I come to my senses and realize he works from 7am to 11pm. And I know he's tired. The thing that makes me upset is dat he says hi to my boobs first den the baby.
  • mommysbabyboymommysbabyboy
    He has heard the heartbeat and saw him for himself
  • mommysbabyboymommysbabyboy
    he speaks to me but it seems likes that's about all that's done.....I guess I feel like I'm not attractive to him anymore....but I hope things get better cause I just be depressed
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