What I've Come To Realize...

edited April 2011 in Pregnant
This is a PREGNANCY forum. There are so many things that can pertain or be linked to pregnancy. Many of these things include: Pregnancy symptoms, relationships, abortion, adoption, baby brands, & so on. Basically what I am trying to say is it has a very BROAD spectrum.

I am nineteen years old, graduated high school three years ago. & I have never in my life seen cattiness, immaturity, & down right disrespect like I have on here.

Y'all are about to have children, trying to, or already have started a beautiful family. Even though they may not see how you react or respond to others, you are supposed to set an example. I've seen people on here be down right hurtful. Who are you to judge someone else?

It bothers the Hell out of me to see people gang up on one another. Grow up & just be respectful of everyone! Just like politics & religion pregnancy has many controversial topics, & people are very outspoken.

It's one thing to stick to your guns based on your opinion, respectfully. & a completely different thing where you're being down right ignorant.

There is never going to be ONE right answer in everyone's eyes, no matter the topic.
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  • I agree 110%. Im glad u wrote this!!
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  • BUMP! My only problem with debating is when it gets to the nasty name calling.
  • @Jaime77 I know! There are many things I have seen on here that upset me, or when people deliberately call me out & bash my responses. But, I have never & will never belittle someone. It's not the right thing to do, no matter how wrong they are.
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  • @navywife gets a little tiresome, right?
  • I'm not on here very often so if my post seems repetitive I'm sorry. But, there's no need to be rude.
  • @navywife 3rd post like it and unrelated to pregnancy.
  • @navywife and @cinnabon no baby bump yet? There are a lot of pregly girls on there. I choose both! :)
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  • Not rude. You just missed a boat load of drama and everyone is trying to move on. That's all. There's always going to be people who spoil the sense of calm but I think we just have to try to ignore it.
  • @Megrod88 :-? hmmmm...well that makes perfect sense, lol, which to some will make no sense (not bashing anyone, before someone has a heart attack...)
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  • @wallieheadbaby3 I have baby bump, but I don't like that there are no pix and u gotta scroll through topics. On here, all the posts come up. Just gotta get used to it, I guess...but I agree its overall more mature
  • do u all have the same names over there?
    I'm "mamiof2plus1" over there
  • @cinnabon I'm still having a problem with those things on there too but I really like some of it too. :) @saylorsmommy yes we are and no I can't pull away completely there are just so many things and people I really like here. But nothing wrong with having both.@cinnabon if you get on and under pregnancy rants it says welcome pregly or something like that and we are almost all together... some are still lost and I'm trying to find them but I have the same name and so do a lot of others.
  • What pisses me off is when someone is bashing u and other women for having an opposite opinion then u stick up for yourself and other women who's opinion is the sane as urs then the people who u stuck up for leave you out for the sharks
  • @Kateee10 I'm brand new on here but I agree with your statement in general. It sounds like things can get crazy here, I hope it isn't really so bad though! This was the best of the pregnancy apps I could find in the forum, the others seemed to be either limited in their information or have very few members.

    I don't see how this topic would be considered irrelevant? It's about this forum, correct? I know I'm new but it seems that the original point was to say that all pregnancy topics are fair and that being mean to people is unnecessary and also that there is no such thing as a one size fits all answer to anything.... I think that this is true in all areas of life. Not trying to step on anyones toes though! Just voicing my opinion and confusion. :)
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  • @momof22be that sounds horrible! Jeeze! That would upset me too!
  • I completely agree but at the same time, with most of us being grown, we should all be able to get passed rude, disrespectful or just stupid comments. Im not saying its ok for ppl to bash others at all. But this is only the internet... I love the fact that I can relate to alot of other women on here and vice versa but like i said, its just the internet... The person on the other end of the rude comment is ultimately a non exisiting factor to me in real life so why stress or even allow it to really get to you? We are women.. lol I have never in my life been to any social network or forum for that matter where every single woman just said the nicest things. It'll never happen... No matter how many ppl express their feelings about it, the issue will always continue. There's bound to be drama when ever opinions are being discussed. its sad not every one can get along but that's life... Just laugh at the stupidty and ignorance of others and continue to be you...
    At least thats how I see it....
  • Well said Katee
  • Waiting for my baby bump email... Taking a while
  • @jess510 mine took about five min but it felt like forever! I just kept refreshing. :) look for us!
  • Can u tag ppl in ur conversations over there? How do u know if someone replied to u?
  • 100% well put....
  • @cinnabon I wrote u and said hi but I don't think they have notifications! Gerr
  • I also wish it would tell you how many new coments on a thread....
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