U know for sure!!?? how u know?? Damnn first off I'm srry to hear that.. That's never a good feeling on ur heart.. R u pregg? How far along? Do u live together? If u know for sure then u need to confront him.. That's not ok (
Ya u needa confront him.. Idk y some guys do that.. Ur the mother of his child!!! Wtff!!! Makes me madd! U dnt needa b witt someone like that.. Father of child o nott..u can get someone better trust me its possible!!!
I had dis weekend off from work n thought me & him n da kids where gonna spend it together but I was wrong it startd friday wen he left for work he stayd out allnite n didnt get n da house until da next morning at 4:30 am da baf thing abour it was I had to call da fire department a hour b4 cause I thought my house on fire but it wasnt da dum asses downstairs frm me jus didnt knw how to cook n all da smoke frm there house came rite up stairs to my house but while all of dis is going on im callin him n u knw I didnt get an answer frm him at all
Wow... Didu ask him y? Or what he was doing?? Aghhh I.know that's a horrible feeling.. U needa let him knoe u know what hes up too n if u think he could change give him a chance or move on...he can stil b there for ur kids but u dnt deserve that!!!
Yea I am pregg im 20 weeks today n we live togther oh n this is our third child together n I did confront him everytime I ask he lies he dont wnt to keep it real im jus tired of going thru dis im tired of always feeln down n tired of lettn my kids c me cry n havent to hear their little voices ask me mommy wats wrong dnt cry
Awww ( I'm srry love agh bastards!!!!!! I would say enough is enough.. In relationships I have learned if its not working dnt waste any more time witt it juss leave.. N I sounds better wen ur heart n mind tells u enough is enough then its time dear.. Its not gunn b easy... Believe that.. But rather now than later wen its worse u know.. (( I'm srry..how old r u btw?
I do ask him y he cheats on me. I always ask him if ur nor happy then tell me but da bad thing about everything is he abuses me n front of my kids n it wud b times wen my son comes outta knw where n say to me mommy daddy gonna beat u down good do u think I like hearn dat no nor at all n my man tells me everytime he feels like I dis respect him he gonna beat my ass
Wow!!!!!no man that loves u would do u like that... That's not healthy for u nor ur children.. U needa get out!!!!!!!!! Asap! As in tomorrow!!! Tell him ur leaving him .. If trie to abuse u call the cops.. That's not right!!!! Please do ur self the favor n get out!!! N ur children they dnt needa c that.. They gon grow up thinking that's ok!! N its not!!!!
I knw I need to leave but I dnt have anywhere to go n he knws dat im jus so stress out rite now I dnt have no friends to tlk to cause he drove them Away n I dnt tlk to family cause of him rite now hes controlln my life n I hate it
@Luvbeingamom I'm so sorry that you are going through that, but there is always some where to go. Google womens shelters or domestic violence anything. They will help you move into housing and help you getting your life on track. There are places that will help you the whole way. Even putting you in a place that no one can find out where you. I know that is totally scary to think about but a friend of mine had to do it and now she is in her own place, working, getting help with her kids. Please you have to try something, you and your children DO NOT deserve that...
@Luvbeingamom you cannot stay with a man you admit beats you, mistreats you in front of your children, and that you are just plain scared of. You have to get away from this! You DO NOT DESERVE that and neither do your children. The mimic what they see and it could be terrible! I know it has to be the hardest thing ever, but he needs to get his mind right and seek counseling of some kind. You're obviously unhappy, don't put yourself through that any longer, love is about happiness and I can't imagine you are experiencing too much happiness right now. He could end up turning the anger on your kids or even worse on your beautiful lil unborn. Just go to google and search domestic violence or womens shelters or womens and childrens shelters, and the name of your city and state. Please do not allow yourself to be treated that way...
Awwe I just read all this hunny that's awful but u need to get out b4 its to late. Your young never think u can't do it it will not be easy but think of your kids that will:get u through it. You don't want your kids being taken away from you then u will alone. I hope u get yourself out
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