Sex drive all of a sudden gone...

LsbunnyLsbunny
edited April 2011 in First Trimester
My bd and i have had sex maybe 3 times since we found out we were pregnant (about 2 weeks ago) and he wonders why i dont start anything anymore. I dont know how to tell him that im just not in the mood. I know he will get mad and think that im cheating on him just because i dont want to have sex bc im not in the mood, or he will think im not attracted to him anymore. He doesnt understand that hormones freak out like almost immediately and the fact that im 7 weeks means that they are acting up already. How do i tell him this without him getting mad?

Comments

  • adriels_mommyadriels_mommy
    Well he shouldn't be mad .. your prego and it happens .. I don't have a sex drive at all and I explained it to him and he understands .. so just tell him and he shouldn't get mad at you.. the sex drive will be back :)
  • LsbunnyLsbunny
    Lol I hope so
  • jbandno3jbandno3
    This is my third pregnancy and my sex drive goes downhill when I am pregnant. It also sucks when I am on birth control. I hope he will understand. Sometimes I just give in, I usually enjoy it once I get past not wanting to.
  • adriels_mommyadriels_mommy
    @jbandno3 am in agreement I give in sometimes and then enjoy it but in the beginning I hate it
  • jbandno3jbandno3
    I can talk myself out of it, make up every excuse in the book just not to do it, but usually once or twice a week I at least give it a shot. I don't want my hubs to suffer the whole pregnancy too!
  • adriels_mommyadriels_mommy
    Yea I agree .. I feel bad for him im moody enough so i'll be nice everyonce in a while
  • LsbunnyLsbunny
    He called it bull shit, so I said screw it, unless im throwing up or passing out, ill give in.
  • soon2b3soon2b3
    Mine has been gone since I got pregnant and has yet to return....I'm 20 wks....maybe it took a walk and got lost....I'll put up reward signs soon. :">
  • soon2b3soon2b3
    I haven't had sex since the night I conceived
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