Marriagee ndd childd supporr

blondie93blondie93
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
So my bd wants to get backk together after 8 monthsz of beingf withh summ one elsee ndd by da wayy shes pregoo too. //: she a monthh behindd mehh ii hadd my mindd set on puttin childd support buhh he kindaa asked my dadd for my handd in marriagee idkk wat my deaisionn on that is goinn to b buhh im just curious bkusz I knww the 1st bornn always gets moree then the others buhh if I wait longer to put it and the other gurl has already put it. Would that changee mehh gettin more then her if my bby kums 1st

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  • momof22bemomof22be
    Put it in girl if he left once and got someone else preggers he could easily do it again
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    Ummm...Idk exactly how cs works but I would deff get on it until you guys actually walk down the isle then worry about changing everything. Bc sadly some men are full of it.
  • momof22bemomof22be
    Sorry that ur in that situation
  • Karla_with_a_KKarla_with_a_K
    Whoever files first gets the most.
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    All I can say is don't worry about your baby being #2. That definately isn't a reason to get back with him, let alone take vows with him. Child support isn't about who gets more 1st. They determine.your income with his, then her income with his. If she gets more it's bc she makes less than you. Hope that helps.
  • lilbit01_209lilbit01_209
    File!!! If you get married then he wont have to pay. If you dont he does. Protect yoursrlf and your baby till you make a decision. And be careful with him, make sure your really ready to commit to him. Trust is an important factor in a healthy marriage.
  • blondie93blondie93
    Yeahh thts wat I thinkk too. Buhh idkk I could care less about the other gurl I do want to file first bkusz im nt planningg on gettinn marriedd till after I graduatee
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  • mom60511mom60511
    If she files hers first they won't lower hers to give you more. Just like if he found out he had a 3 year old They wouldn't go back and lower yours to give her more.
  • boofacebooface
    File that s* ASAP...and then seriously think about what you're doing with him. There's no way that you should be heading down the aisle any time soon but that's just my opinion....baby comes first so protect your child first and foremost.
  • bigdaddybigdaddy
    Wow he left you then got with another chick and got her preg a month later... if you take him back def have him. Get a complete std work to include hiv. He is obviously not using condoms. Hope all works out for you. Just understand that other woman will always ne a factor in this relationship . That can prove to be very difficult and you are young...good luck hope it works in your favor
  • bigdaddybigdaddy
    make him prove himself. I'm not saying play games. but he made some effer up decisions... he needs to earn your trust, respect, and love. Don't just give it, make him earn it
  • Leggs2011Leggs2011
    Start enrolling girl!! Never wait.. Once you get married(If you decide to) you can obviously stop it.. But I would be taking his money just in case..
  • blondie93blondie93
    The smartest thingg ivee heardd was fromm bigdaddy it truee that he shouldd get tested especialyy beinn the hornndogg that he is. I was about to makee the dummest mistakee. The good thingg is he hasnn txt all dayy. Badd signn right there. Better start gettin those papers readyy
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