Stressed & confused.

elle_babyelle_baby
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
I'm 20 yrs old and my on n off bf is 26. I feel like I'm the older one. when I told him I was pregnant all he did is try to push abortion which mainly I think because his parents are very strict about him dating outside his race. Same reason why he hasn't told anyone he got me pregnant not even his friends, bt that of course is something else which I don't get. Then now all he says is he is there for me on whatever I decide n claims to b supportive (he is not btw). I feel as if I'm dating an immature boy all he wants to do is go out n have his fun, to make matters worse he acts like I'm not even pregnant. Totally ignores that subject. He keeps begging for me to take him back bt how can I with all this issues and him not being ready to grow up yet?

Comments

  • ItsAGirl18ItsAGirl18
    Wow that's insane chica. I deff wouldn't take bim back until he shows you he's ready and he tells people and proves he wants to be with you and this child. He needs to daddy up and be a man or kick rocks. Hun you don't need him. Make him need you and beg for you, but don't stress yourself over him, you don't wanna hurt the baby.
  • ItsAGirl18ItsAGirl18
    When I first got pregnant (Im 18 and 5 months btw (:) my husband did everything for me and was so sweet and didn't want me doing anything stressful or to over exerting so I woulnt hurt the baby and now at times he makes me feel as if I'm a burden and I ask for soo much when I need his help.
  • NevaehsMommyNevaehsMommy
    Yea naybe u should tell him to man up intill then tell him ur doin wats rite for ur bby dnt stresd. N if u dnt mind me askn wats ur race n his?
  • elle_babyelle_baby
    Yeah I agree its just hard especially him always putting stuff in my head and saying he will change. When its just a routine for him. I changed my number haven't gave him my new one BUT he has my email nd all he does is try to sweet talk me and email me everyday. Even when I tell him I want nothing to do with him & won't reply to his emails bt yet he continues to write me so many emails a day to feel sorry for him. Idk how to get rid of him completely.

    Congrats :D I'm 13 weeks today. I personally think guys r just missing a screw in their head lol doesn't it feel like they want all the attention to be more on them after they find out ur pregnant? & have u tried talking to him about how that makes u feel?
  • elle_babyelle_baby
    @NevaehsMommy I do bt he just tries to put it on me and make it seem like he is the good guy. But ur right. He is asian and I'm mexican.
  • NevaehsMommyNevaehsMommy
    Its guna b jyst fine girl just focus on u n yur bby
  • elle_babyelle_baby
    :)
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