Really?!? REALLY?! I QUIT! I'M DONE!
I've seriously had it with my bf/bd. I TRIED to have a decent night tonight after going out to a really expensive dinner on the beach, but that never happens with my bf. We came home after being gone all day, and then when he wants to go to sleep I ask him to go look for our cat which happened to be outside...well...he comes back inside smelling of cigarettes( or so I thought), he asks me to turn out the light. Well...I turned out the light, and he literally FREAKS out and starts bouncing around telling me that's he's "dying", grabbing his chest. WTF SO I ask him "WTF DID YOU SMOKE?!" he proceeded to tell me that he didnt smoke anything. Well..turns out he lied to me AGAIN. I ask him again what he smoked, and he threw this packet of some herbal incense that idiots smoke to get high. Proceeded to wake up everyone in the house, his uncle called the ambulance, they came, and he just started acting like a fool so the police came. They ended up hand cuffing him, and then came in to talk to me. I told them what happened, and what he said he smoked, gave them the empty packet of the crap he smoked, and they took him away. I don't know where they took him, but being 28weeks pregnant I shouldn't have to deal with this juvenile sh*t! He's 24 yrs old. On bond. And goes to drug court. I'm due in July. If he goes to jail he won't be there for the birth of his son. At this point I'm pretty much fed up with everything that's going on so far. I don't know what to do. I'm not for sure if they took him to the hospital, the psych ward, or jail. But I tried looking up side effects for this crap, and all of it checks out. So I'm assuming they took him to the hospital for treatment. I don't even feel like stressing myself out anymore than I already am at this point to call around and look for him. If he is in jail I'm not bailing him out again. Not doing it. He lost his job because of this sh*t,got our car reposed, and never has any money all because he just wants to get high OFF OF FAKE WEED. Constantly lying to me about doing it, even though he swears up and down he'd never do it. Yet while he was bouncing around acting a fool, he told me "I DO ALWAYS LIE TO YOUR FACE". That really hurt my feelings. Makes me wonder what else he does, and lies to me about. I really just don't want to go on like this, but dont want to withhold him from seeing his son, but if he acts like this I have no other choice really. :-(
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@EricaK22 girl I'm sorry you're going through this. Yes, those things aren't good for the baby but I understand that its not easy to let go so fast even when our boyfriends act stupid. He shouldn't be smoking that stuff and go to be around you anyway. With my ex, I thought if he could lie over something small, then why wouldn't he lie over something big? You and the baby deserve better than that.
Here, whether it's sugarcoated or not, the op is faced, it seems to me, with a choice she needs to make: whether to do what's best for her child.