need help

rachie4509rachie4509
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
So my fiancée nd I are expecting our firat and I'm 7 wks....I'm 17 bout to be 18 nd he is 18 bout to be 19.....now he loves to smoke weed nd ciggs but he has the courtesy to do it far away from me but I feel like he does it way to much which is gross to me and he says he don't wanna stop...idk what to do or tell hom I mean I give hin altumatins all the time like either u smoke a day or u see ur bby but its like ge don't care and plus he keeps askin me for 3 somes its weird idk what ro do can anyone give advice please? I mean pther then those 2 thibgs he's the most perfect man for me nd does everything I need or want...

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  • HavingNumber4HavingNumber4
    I think our bd is related just found out today he been mixing (cheatin), so I went and cheated on him. Two wrongs don't make it right but I know he will find out when he comes home n that's wat I want him to do. See we had some condoms from the clinic but one was missing we got them cuz he burned me we got treated used them then all of sudden he stopped. His additude changed and all this morning I seen one missing so I took 2 and I did me. I know its wrong but I also know I'm not going to leave him we been together 4yrs two m/c n I'm 11wks6dys pregnant. I done had black eyes busted cheek busted jaw broken ribs n broke arm. I know its crazy but I can guarantee once this baby come ni start really showing its a wrap. I'm lookin for a job n I definitely not going back to my moms cuz the father of my oldest is her boyfriend(rapist). I tried shelters no one wants to help(tears) I'm so sorry.
  • rachie4509rachie4509
    Wow that's crazy..I'm sorry for what ur goin thru.nd no disrespect or nun but ur mom is nasty...how can she date the father of ur kid? That's weird....
  • kellyand5kellyand5
    Father of my kids has left today and im glad I told him he can drink n smoke or be with his family if we meant that much hed stop should put his family before that but suppose harder in yr case as he do things for u mine would tell me im nobody special to tell him wot to do so hope hes now very happy hes lost it all! Suppose having a good chat about how much u dont like it may help n
  • HavingNumber4HavingNumber4
    Yea she is but I was 14 when it happened they were engaged he use to babysit me n my siblings while she been at work then he attacked me
  • rachie4509rachie4509
    @zexy4da011 wow and ur mon never said anything to him? That's just plain out crazy. But ur a very strong woman and ill hope the best for u

    @kellyand5 that's hard I dnt tjink I cud imagine bein alone thru my pregnancy but mibe respect my wishes usually but o just want it to end completely lol
  • HavingNumber4HavingNumber4
    Yea she is but I was 14 when it happened they were engaged he use to babysit me n my siblings while she been at work then he attacked me I don't see how she couldn't have none when I told her she smacked me I was 12 then that when he just been fondling me when it happened I was n the hospital for two wks from the damage down there n to my body n head.
  • HavingNumber4HavingNumber4
    @kelly where'd u get ur strength not to call him n all
  • rachie4509rachie4509
    Wow...like I said ur strong...
    But do u still talk to either one?
  • kellyand5kellyand5
    Hope it does 4 u! Its hard being on my own but used to it think it makes me enjoy the kids more not arguing with him . I hope all goes ok with u and yr bf good luck!
  • HavingNumber4HavingNumber4
    My mom sometimes him hell no
  • karelybabiekarelybabie
    yeah my bd is also a pot smoker n ciggs and he is 37 I'm met when he was 23 and he is still doing it til this day =\ sorry I couldn't help much but if u find a way to make him stop let me know.
  • may1mommatobemay1mommatobe
    Me & my bf used to smoke weed together but ever since I found out I was preggo I quit he still smokes & drinks it just makes me jealous
  • rachie4509rachie4509
    Hmm so I guess theirs not much we can fo huh?
  • rachie4509rachie4509
    Hmm so I guess theirs not much we can fo huh?
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