10 weeks, my baby past away inside me :(

rene28rene28
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
Im so sad. My baby had no heart beat. On fri, i went thru surgery my dr cleaned me out.. ive been cryin and crying. Its very hard. I had no bleeding, no sighns of cramps nothing, only bcus i requested an u/s and... we saw baby had no heart beat. Even though i have a 4 yr old and a 10 month old, im very sad. I went to church yesterday and the father blessed me, i prayed to god, and i feel more calm now. But i really wanted my baby..

Comments

  • bonita85bonita85
    That is the same way I lost my baby last year. I was at my 16 week appointment and found out she stopped growing at 12-14 weeks. Hardest thing I ever had to go threw. I am so sorry for your loss.
  • namelessnameless
    Its hard going threw a lost even if the baby is only 5wks or more or you already have kids..it does affect you..im so sorry for your loss. I had a mc last summer and it was real hard on my husband and me..and still makes me some days. Im glad you feel more calm now.
  • FiRstTiMeOcT_mOmFiRstTiMeOcT_mOm
    Im sooo sorry for your lost... losing a baby is always hard... i will definitely keep u in my prayers
  • mommyof3girlsmommyof3girls
    Sorry u have to feel the pain. I lost a baby when i was 10 weeks along too. Its hard. Its sad. Im sorry. Trust in God.
  • expectingbabynumber3expectingbabynumber3
    Am sry hun hope u get better soon. Remember God is in control trust in him. He will bless u again.
  • one5oneone5one
    I'm sad for u too.
  • fitmamafitmama
    Soo sorry for your loss. I had m/c last Sept. with same situation, although I was 9 weeks and baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. I had no symptoms, still felt prego, no bleeding cramps or nothing. It's a devastating situation. You can get through it though. I focused on my two boys I already have (7 & 10) and relied on God. Healing takes time. I wish the best for you.
  • lil_bit17lil_bit17
    Im so sorry for your loss....the same thing happened to me. I lost the baby at 9 weeks 5 days, but carried it till 12 weeks. I had no idea I lost it either. I had the surgery 3 weeks ago and have a follow-up appointment this Thursday. I know it's going to be hard and i'm really nervous about it. Trust in God and don't give up! I wish you the best in your next pregnancy :)
  • adriels_mommyadriels_mommy
    Im sorry for your loss ..
  • kayleigh27kayleigh27
    Im sorry hun. I.had a mc last summer. Really tested my faith and strength. Any loss is hard and that's great that you're going to.church. You need that in your life to help guide you right now. I didn't do that when I had my mc and it really made me worse off than what I was.
  • ExcitedForOctoberExcitedForOctober
    My heart goes out to you.
  • rene28rene28
    Thank you all for your prayers, im trying to focus on my two children right now, ive been so sad, i didnt even realize eastet is just around the corner, and i have nothing ready for my kids, poor babbies, im trying my best to smile but inside me its killing me. Girls i have a question how soon can i get preg agin, is it safe after this surgery, please let me know
  • lil_bit17lil_bit17
    @rene28 im going to start trying again when I get my first cycle back.
  • KrazymomofAdrianKrazymomofAdrian
    I am sorry my heart goes out to you as well. Good luck with your next. Try to have a Happy Easter.
  • lexi34lexi34
    Sorry to hear that boo boo I keep u in, my prayers.
  • rene28rene28
    Thank you.
  • NeysaNeysa
    I just had a m/c last month. Was 12 wks but the baby had no heart beat. Its hard. My heart goes out to u. I have been trying to have a baby for almost 3 years.
  • rene28rene28
    Neysa, thank you, and im sorry to hear that. Gosh, i know its very hard, but with faith, everything will be better soon. My friend tried for 7 yrs no shes 27yrs old and she gave up. Out of no where god blessed her finally. She got preg and has a healthy bby girl. Never give up i'll be praying for you. I want to try soon agin too..
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    Im here if u need anyone to talk to. I went trough twm mcs 2009&2010. My jeart goes out to u n ur fam...
  • Soon2BmommaOf2Soon2BmommaOf2
    My heart goes.to u and ur spouse, i wish you the best when you try again. God has a special plan :)
  • LovelyBootsLovelyBoots
    Sorry for your loss.
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