I need advice

16andSoontoBeMommy16andSoontoBeMommy
edited February 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
My bf wants to party and stay out all night. But he always thinks I'm being selfish and only thinking of myself when I tell him I just want to stay home and rest. Am I being selfish? Should I go out and party with him?

Comments

  • mommyof2girlsmommyof2girls
    No ur not hon. ur thinking of whats best for u and baby. theres nothing wrong with wanting to be home where its safe.. My honesy opinon is ur being selfish for the right reasons and its going to benefit you and baby.. Hes being selfish for making you feel bad for wanting to be safe at home. Dont stress it babe your doing nothing wrong and congrats on the baby.
  • 16andSoontoBeMommy16andSoontoBeMommy
    Thank-you
  • mommyof2girlsmommyof2girls
    Your welcome. :)
  • toocutexcoretoocutexcore
    Your bf should want to stay home with you not party. My fiance feels bad for even drinking infront of me when we're hanging out with a couple friends. You need to talk to him. Explain that once the baby is born his lifestyle is going to have to change and so it doesn't come as such a surprise he should cut back on the partying now. Be strong stand your ground and tell him what's what
  • Rissalee7Rissalee7
    ive gotten lucky since getting prego my bf hasnt gone out without me at all. other than work lol. i might not be able to drink but he still takes me with him to play pool or dance and just get out of the house
  • 16andSoontoBeMommy16andSoontoBeMommy
    He invites me to come. But I'm always so tired from school and work. @toocutexcore I tried talking to him but he just blows me off and acts like It's not a big deal.
  • peanutsmama19peanutsmama19
    yu might wana go out later in yur pregnancy, yu usually have more energy during the 2nd tri, but try explaining tht in a few weeks yu might hve more energy.
    I always tell my fiance, I'm growing a tiny person inside me. it takes skill & alotta enegry. so leave me the eff alone. haha even though he nvr rly says anything, its more of a joke. jst kinda put it in a funny way. I've been sooo much more exhausted with this baby than my first.. its ridiculous. /:
  • charity87charity87
    Ur not being selfish at all I had a friend like that when I was pregnant with my daughter people who don't know what its like to be pregnant have no idea that ur tired and need to rest.. believe me rest while u can cause after that baby is born there is no more relaxing. Take care
  • 16andSoontoBeMommy16andSoontoBeMommy
    He isn't supportive at all. & he thinks I'm faking to be pregnant just to stay home and not party with him.
  • charity87charity87
    Im sorry he is acting that way.. just be strong and don't let him get to u u need to do what u need to do and that's rest hope things get better
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  • 16andSoontoBeMommy16andSoontoBeMommy
    Haha @Mama_Kat I'll try that
  • Mommy2b_17Mommy2b_17
    I say you're doing the right think mama. How old is he?I
  • katlillykatlilly
    Show him all the posts on here with all us preggers girls complaining how tired we all are!!!
  • 16andSoontoBeMommy16andSoontoBeMommy
    @ Mommy2b_17 He's 17.
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