WE MADE A DECISION!!!!

soon2be3soon2be3
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
This pregnancy that we lost yesterday was devastating, I have two children from a previous relationship and this would have been my fiance and my first together. He has a medical condition and we were warned that we would need fertility help. I wasnt using bc we said if it happens it happens, were shocked to find ourselves pregnant and hurt to have lost it. So we made the decision tonight that we are actively going to start trying for another baby right away!!! So hopefully we will be a member of the expectant parent club again soon!!!!

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  • FatBarbieFatBarbie
    Awwww <3
  • soon2be3soon2be3
    I'm curious as to anyone else who has been in the same situation, Ive heard conflicting stories, done say its easiest to get pregnant right after a miscarriage, some say you are more likely to have another miscarriage if you get pregnant again within 3 months afterwards
  • Mnbaby3Mnbaby3
    Whoot whoot! Good luck and have fun trying hehehe
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    After each mc I had my dr red that I wait for to periods and then try just to make sure everything is healed :) best of luck and have fun trying lol
  • soon2be3soon2be3
    Some say*
  • kara_lamekkara_lamek
    I hope it works out for yall:] my fiance and I are gonna wait a while before we start trying to conceive again. Best of luck!
  • soon2be3soon2be3
    I originally wanted to wait, didn't want to go through the fear og losing another baby, but realized that no matter how long we wait I will always have that fear
  • islandgirlislandgirl
    Good luck with that! :)
  • kara_lamekkara_lamek
    My miscarriage is still going on.... im still bleeding and cramping heavily. But we are just gonna wait awhile so that I can start school this year and we can fix a few more things in our relationship. Plus we want to get married next year sober are gonna be saving for that. But who knows we might have an accident:] either way will be thrilled. I just hope we NEVERRR have to go through this again! I hope you don't either sweetheart!
  • babymaxisonthewaybabymaxisontheway
    Im sorry! But really glad you t going to keep trying good luck!
  • soon2be3soon2be3
    I'm still bleeding slightly also, passed the baby yesterday .. And thanks for the support everyone! Its nice to have something positive to look forward to after this nightmare
  • annamazingannamazing
    Awwwwwwwwww God bless
  • mscheylamscheyla
    Good luck :)
  • Tlg81Tlg81
    I had a miscarriage in august & conceived again in november. I'm 12 wks now so far so good. We just waited till I had 1 period before we started trying again.
  • cbr_girrliecbr_girrlie
    Sorry u had to go thru that ladies. :( good luck with conceiving again. God bless
  • soon2be3soon2be3
    Thank you, we are doing the same, waiting one period and then trying .. Going to keep taking my prenatal vitamins
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  • smobleysmobley
    I had a miscarriage in Sept. Had one period and happy to say now due in Sept. Its very possible.
  • soon2be3soon2be3
    Thank you for your story, not sure how easy it will be for us, my fiance only had one testicle it was a miracle we conceived without help to begin with
  • mixd_mommymixd_mommy
    Sorry to hear about yur loss..i hope my story gives yu some hope && encouragement. I got pregnant in may of last yr && lost da bby in august. I hav 1 from a past relationship so dis would hav been me & my bfs 1st together! I went thru a huuuuge depression after dat. I seekd some counseling & turned to my mom && one of my closest friends for advice & comfort. I did not want to try again bcus i wuz too hurt. My bf && i did not use bc so we continued doin our thing. Lol. Low & behold..da end of november i became pregnant. Iam no 14weeks && da pregnancy is goin gud. No complications..jus da usual weird cravings, fatigue, & mood swings. Lol. I honestly think dis bby is gona make it into the world!!! I hope yu guys r succesfull & everything goes well. Gud luck!! :)
  • 2ndtimearound2ndtimearound
    My heart goes out to all of u going going through a mc. I just got married in Oct, but we were trying for months b4 that. We were trying to get preg from March up until July.once the wedding was set we decided to wait until after we were married to try again. So we stopped trying in aug. Well ironically i got preg in Sept. Two days b4 the wedding i had my first dr. visit. There was no baby just an empty sac & dr said when i got back from the wedding we would decide whether to have a d&c or take pills vaginally to make my body abort. I was devastated, but had to put on a happy face and try to enjoy my wedding. Dr said no sex, so it put a damper on the wedding nite. We didnt want to wait too long to try again so we waited until i had a normal cycle then tried again. We got preg right away and now im almost 10 weeks. Im still totally nervous, but so excited.
  • MpmommyMpmommy
    I found out I was pregnant in early november and miscarried right after thanksgiving. 6 weeks later I found out I was 5 weeks pregnant! I'm 9 weeks today and everything is going good so far! I've had 3 ultrasounds to be cautions. Remember everything happens for a reason.
  • 2ndtimearound2ndtimearound
    @mpmommy Congrats. U r right, everything does happen for a reason. When i found out i was pg in sept, my 13 yr old son was upset, and didnt want me to have another child. He even cried at school to the school counselor...he said that he was afraid i wouldnt have time for him anymore. When i told him that i was going to lose the baby he was sad. I said " i thought u didnt want me to have a baby"
    He said "well its true what they say mom, u dont know what u have until its gone". Now that im expecting again he's excited, and even kisses my tummy to tell the baby he loves it.
  • MiracleM2BMiracleM2B
    I got chills, May God bless you (:
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • mommy2be1989mommy2be1989
    <3 mii heart goes out to all the mommies <3 take good care of yaselfs <3
  • duein6wksduein6wks
    I had a miscarriage in april of last year. I then conceived again in may. Lone behold, yet another miscarriage in June. August rolled around and I found out I was 10 weeks prego. I am now due in 6 weeks with my first child a healthy baby boy. Don't let a miscarriage discourage you from trying again.
  • soon2be3soon2be3
    I'm so glad I have such great support here, I'm staying on this app hoping in 2 months ill have good news.
  • babydaddybabydaddy
    My wide miscarried on thanksgiving and is now 6 weeks preg. We waited one cycle then tried. Her ob said within the first 90 days after she would be most fertil so good luck
  • snredasnreda
    I mc early on my first pregnancy, then accidentally got pregnant again immediately. My husband was told he has super sperm. I have 2 perfectly healthy baby girls
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