Wasn't Meant To Be This Time

AngelMaxwellsMamaAngelMaxwellsMama
edited February 2011 in First Trimester
Well I have some horrible news. Baby is gone. Had sex around noon yesterday. Started light bleeding around 3:30 while I was at work. Had to wait til hubby and I both got off to go to ER. They did some bloodwork and my hcg was only 52!!! It was 445 Monday...that number is supposed to double every 48 hours. It isn't supposed to drop at all. So i'm miscarrying. Last night when we came home from the ER before I went to bed I went to the restroom and I was losing blood clots. Still bleeding a little. Go back Monday for further examination to make sure i'm not having another ectopic pregnancy. This is devastating. We just found out last Thursday...1 week later poof!! ...baby is gone. I don't think I am going to ttc after I heal from this.
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  • baby_lovebaby_love
    I'm so sorry to hear that I thought I was having a miscarriage on Tuesday but I went to have an ultrasound sound today an everything is ok with my baby. I'm so sorry for your loss I went through the same thing in Nov I hope everything turns out ok for you an your hobby
  • Mrssmith89Mrssmith89
    Sorry to hear that mama ..bless you
  • mummy_to_bemummy_to_be
    Hun I am so sorry!! Don't give up. These things just happen. I know its hard but imagine when you get pregnant again and you do give birth to a miracle! It will all be worth it Xx
  • eaparker83eaparker83
    Im so sorry. When the time is right you will be blessed
  • PreggersPreggers
    edited February 2011
    I'm so sorry to hear that! I'll be praying for you. I know how you feel. I've had 3 miscarriages and one ectopic pregnancy and I'm praying this baby makes it. I hope you will try again. I know God has a plan for you! Feel better and try to stay positive! God bless!
  • angie87angie87
    Am so sorry to hear this. Hugs sent Ur way
  • lovtralovtra
    So sorry. Had that happen to me in Oct. Praying better this time. Keep your head up.
  • cutedamecutedame
    So sorry..am at dr right now myself getting nother ultrasound cause I started to spot today...take care of you!
  • NeekNeek
    God has other plans.... God bless you and your family ... Continue to have faith
  • babyallenbabyallen
    I am sorry to hear tht. My prayers are with u and your husband.
  • AngelMaxwellsMamaAngelMaxwellsMama
    Thanks everyone! I am not grieving too hard! I am just happy to know we can still conceive. When the time is right, a little one will come home w/ us. It's just a matter of God's time.
  • tiff87124atiff87124a
    @dollfacemommi, I have an idea of what you're going through. My husband and I tried for 7 years to have a baby and I had 3 miscarriages and then after giving up and not trying for awhile I found out I was 15 weeks pregnant last March. I gave birth to my beautiful baby boy in August. Then this past December I got pregnant again and now I'm 8 weeks. I know its hard but God's timing is perfect. Sending prayers your way!
  • hopefulmommytobehopefulmommytobe
    I am so sorry to hear this. I had a miscarriage after sex too a week after I found out I was pregnant , may 5th 2010. Its really heartbreaking & I realized now to just be greatful I can conceive.. there could have been something wrong with my little peanut & now he/she's in heaven with their pop pop. Everything does happen for a reason luv. Don't let it stop you. I'm trying again praying for the best! God bless you.
  • SheronSheron
    My doc advised not to hv sex during e first trimester. Anyways, do rest well & let nature takes its course.
  • AngelMaxwellsMamaAngelMaxwellsMama
    @hopefulmommytobe thanks so much. hopefully things will turn out well for you. I am not going ttc after this. We just need time to get back focused and everything. If it happens again great but I'm not going to push it.
  • AngelMaxwellsMamaAngelMaxwellsMama
    @tiff87124 I know it is. it's hard when you want something so bad though. but we are just going to wait on the Lord's say so. he knows best.
  • mamikaileemamikailee
    How far along were you
  • hopefulmommytobehopefulmommytobe
    Your welcome. And I know this is expected. You should take time to yourself & just take it easy. Do things to get your mind off of it. Because you don't want to stress yourself out. I hope everything works out for you. God bless & your time will come.
  • beba4lovebeba4love
    I know how I feel, I am goin through the same thing... but we always b able to try again. :)
  • Mommy2b_17Mommy2b_17
    God bless you & your husband
  • Prayin_4_twinsPrayin_4_twins
    I am si sorry to hear that. Prayers for you and your husband.
  • tamsy79tamsy79
    @dollfacemommi I admire your strength and faith. Keep it up. Your time will come! *big squeezy hugs*
  • AngelMaxwellsMamaAngelMaxwellsMama
    Thanks for the condolences everyone.

    @beba4love i'm just so ready for this bleeding to stop. I'm tired of seeing it!
  • AngelMaxwellsMamaAngelMaxwellsMama
    @tamsy79 thank you. I have to be strong. I have so much to live for. I know The Lord is going to bless Chris and I. sometimes it is hard to wait but if this has happened again the the Lord just wants us to trust His judgement and wait on Him. when we are meant have 1 I will get pregnant again and it will be a sticky one.
  • charity87charity87
    Hey im so sorry I've been through two in the past year the first misscarrige was hard I was suposse to be 13 weeks but when I had an ultrasound baby only measured to be about 8 weeks it was hard to deal with, everyone kept telling me that something was probably wrong with the baby and god has a plan so it will happen.. sorry for telling my whole story but things will get better and good luck :)
  • AngelMaxwellsMamaAngelMaxwellsMama
    @Charity87 it's okay about sharing your story. I know I'm not alone in the struggle to conceive and carry to term but it is still just so hard, ya know. I felt that I was going to be okay this time. We felt like this baby was meant for us. *sigh* guess not. :-(
  • AngelMaxwellsMamaAngelMaxwellsMama
    @cutedame are you and your lo okay?
  • mrselton81mrselton81
    I just had sex with my husband tonight and i'm only 5 weeks. Should I worry?
  • andrea1stbbyandrea1stbby
    I'm sorry to hear about your loss I miscarriaged in september and am pregnant again and feel that this time is right. Your time will come you will be blessed. Ill keep you in prayers
  • AngelMaxwellsMamaAngelMaxwellsMama
    @mrselton81 no honey please don't worry yourself. as long as you don't start bleeding I would be worry-free. Sex is supposed to be safe during pregnancy unless otherwise advised not to by your caregiver. See only reason I think the sex had an effect on my cervix is because w/ the ectopic pregnancy I had 2 years ago I bled after sex. I can tell this bleeding is nothing like last time though. So I am optimistic that I am not having another ectopic. Honestly I think I lost this time because I hadn't been pregnant in two years. My repo system was probably trying to adjust and wasn't strong enough. After I get the okay from the doctor tomorrow I am going to start a folic acid regime that way, when we do get pregnant again i'll have a better chance of maintaining the pregnancy. We aren't going to ttc anymore though. We're just gonna wait on God's time.

    So don't worry or stress love. Those two things do increase your chances. Take it easy, okay? Good luck. Happy and healthy 9 months minus a few weeks. :-)
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