Hormonal vent no judging

preggointxpreggointx
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
I just want to cry I'm 21 weeks still throwing up my apetite is still off and on even though my baby is healthy and bigger than 21 weeks I'm a single mommy and I'm so lonely. I'm trying to pay off my sons lay away to start getting his room in order but his dad is a drunk jerk.L-) He always is complaining about money and his bills and I really dont give a damn because I have bills and I have mor and higher bills than he does and it's just aggrivating. He is always trying to haave sex and wants to be with me but he don't do anything for me or my son and waiting till he is born is too late. I can get his stuff myself and my bff's have been very supportive. I'm just so lonely I run and get my own craving foods rub my own stomach...UGH! I met someone who I liked 8-> and knew I am preggo but then they asked me for money :-t and I'm like wtf is that what u see over here cuz it ain't happening I'm just being hormonal please no negative comments because it isn't going to help. Today is just one of those days :-((

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  • preggointxpreggointx
    Thanks
  • mom60511mom60511
    That takes a lot of nerve to ask a single pregnant woman for money. I was single when I had my first baby 15 years ago. I dumped him because he wouldn't get his sh** together. So I know how you feel. Just try to remember it wont always be this way. Good luck! Hugs and baby rub LOL.
  • BriellesMommyBriellesMommy
    I know how it feels to just ne overall frustrated when preggo. But we are strong women. I hope it makes u feel better to know that ur smileys that u used were RIGHT on point and had me cracking up! U made my morning lol
  • preggointxpreggointx
    It's just crazy I'm always by myself and it usually doesn't bother me but when u thowing up every morning since the start of the 2nd trimester it is just aggrivating. I'm usually a fun joking person but today I just can't pep my spirits up. Yesterday I treated myself to things I love like Olive Garden, nails, I did my hair hoping I would feel better but as u can c I don't
  • preggointxpreggointx
    I love the smiley's they help illustrate the point
  • Mommie_of_2Mommie_of_2
    I am sorry you have to deal with that. I am 14 weeks and already have a 10 month old and their dad just walked out on us choosing drinking and being a biker over us. I am so lonely and cry all the time. I never would have thought this would be my life. I have to rub my own tummy and go out with a baby for late night cravings. And I know all to well about no support finacially. But all we can do as women is stay strong and do what we gotta do. *gives big hug and rubs tummy*
  • pregoagainYAYpregoagainYAY
    I'm sorry you're having to go through this......your baby has a strong mommy and eventhough you shouldn't have to go through this alone, you will be that much stronger because you did. I went through my first pregnancy by myself and I really believe that's why I am thestrong woman/mother I am today. Hang in there sweetie it all happens for a reason......
  • ksmommyksmommy
    I hate to hear that you're going through this. I had to be on my own with my first son too. I was 17 years old and the baby's dad was 19, he was too busy trying to mess with 15 year olds to help me with anything. My son is now 7 and his bio dad has probably bought a total of $500 worth of clothes his entire life, never paid any child support, and refuses to get a job. But the awesome thing is that I met a man when my son was 2 that is the most wonderful father to all of my kids. He has never complained once about buying my first son things, and he never leaves him out. We now have a total of 3 boys and are on our last pregnancy, our first girl! It will get better! Just hang in there. But your baby will have a very strong independent mother as a role model and that's the important part! Hope things get better for you!!
  • Kells32Kells32
    I am crying about what you wrote because I am in a similar place:( I am seperated from the father of my 2 older sons and this one on the way because of he's alcoholic. He tries cover it up because he is working towards a music career and would blame all the late nights out and lack of funds for anything else on him wanting to make it in the industry. I am sooo lonely all the time since we have been seperated...but I can honestly say I am less lonely then when I was with him!!! I have let my wall down and stopped protecting him which has allowed me to let in people who actually care about me:) If you ever need any one to scream and vent at that will not judge you but just listen and understand hit me up:) All I can say about still being sick in the 2nd trimester is that sucks:( but you will make it thru because you are a strong woman just like the rest of us & going thru all the stuff we do is why! Hope you feel start feeling better soon. (((((Big Hug))))))
  • mom60511mom60511
    When are you due?
  • preggointxpreggointx
    It's crazy they can make em but start tripping when it's time to help with them...I'm sucking on a preggo pop so I feel a little better with the nausea I woke up with I'm just so emotional I have never been a cry baby and thought I wouldn't b with this pregnanc because I never cried often until I reached 20 weeks thanks everyone for helping me this morning
  • preggointxpreggointx
    I'm due now 8/22 @kells32 I'm sorry u are going through it too I pray it gets better for u too....anyone experiencing this doesn't deserve it and neither do our kids way to go super moms
  • MybabeMybabe
    Hey I watched my mother raise two knuckle heads on here own my brother has a bachelors and I am a junior I will have mu bachelors next yr. And she did pretty damn good. My point is even if you don't find anyone you can do it!!! Stand solid and keep pushing mama you got it!!!
  • preggointxpreggointx
    thanks
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