pregnancy fatigue (venting)
Does anyone else feel super exhausted all the time? Im 16 weeks now and still tired. I got into it bad with one of now former friends yesterday because she wanted me to give her a ride home and i said i would after i take a nap bcuz i was feeling tired. I had been up since 7am and jus got back from out of town. Not to mention that i didnt sleep that well.the night before becuz i kept waking up to use the bathroom. She started flipping out on me about how i dont respect her or her time and said i was using my pregnancy as an excuse. Im so sick and tired of people who arent preg trying to tell me how i am supposed to feel. She was starting to piss me off but i tried to ignore her and remain calm for the sake of the baby. I told her to.chill out shut up and sit down.bcuz i was going to go to sleep, i was exhausted n would take her home.after i had a nap. She gets mad and Bitch slams my television on.the floor! i mustve blacked out afted thT bcuz next thing i remember i had her jacked up against the wall about to knock.the bitch out. When i came to, i just told her to get out, i cant be fighting her while pregnant. She wouldnt leave bcuz she had no money N needed me to give her a ride, u shouldve thought od that before u slammed my tv, so i called the cops to get her to leave. The cop, sum jerky man with shades on, tried to tell me that i wasnt really tired bcuz he has two kids n has been around his wife who was more pregnant than me, and i just didnt want to take her home. i said no disrespect but until ur able to produce a child n ur own body dont try to tell how im supposed to feel and ur opinion is irrevelant, ur just here to get her outta my house, so get her out. i was soo angry. not good for the baby! the fact that people try to say im making up excuses when they have no ideA what its like to pregnant really pisses me off. just plain inconsiderate N selfish. i get exhausted going to the grocery store moreless waking up at 7am and having to catch a flight.
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.@elle_baby u r soo right! Just bcuz people cant see it, theres a lil person inside of us taking everything from us, esp our energy. This is my first pregnancy so im not showing yet. Doesnt mean im not feeling like shit. Trust me, i wanted to give him the smackdown treatment too. He soundd stupid.
@snikta127 wow. So ur saying it never ends, oh boy. I hope u feel better, itll be over soon.someone told me fatigue is due to low iron. I have a drs appt today so ill ask what can be done. Yea ur right. She literally is crazy. Bitch needs to take her meds. I dont know where she thought that was going to get her other than a ride from the police to the train station. I only called the police bcuz if they didnt get her out, i wouldve been whippin her ass. Shes lucky im preg.
@08lilmomma11 u know i realized when u become pregnant/a mother, u grow up pretty fast, and a lot of ur former friends arent on the same level. It starts with pregnancy ur tired all the time, cant smoke, drink, too exhausted most of the time to hang out with friends or go out. Its like ur body is preparing for this major lifestyle change. Ur priorities change and sum people in ur life arent going to understand and be able to.keep up N u gotta leave them behind. In essence u outgrow the friendship. Id rather bond with other moms bcuz we have more in common and id rAther focus on my future than go party while ur former friends r still doing the same stuff they were doin 5 yrs ago. So congrats on growinf up ladies. We have something wAY MORE IMPORTANT TO WORRY ABOUT.