Need Prayers and Advice....(kinda long and sad)

MommysWorldMommysWorld
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
Ok so im 18 weeks and 3 days and the father is trying to force me into abortion.....I told him numerous that I dont need him Im well capable of doin this on my own..Im only 22 and I have 2 children from a previous relationship who are 4 and 5....I work, have my own car, my own place and I dont rely on public assiatance (please done take offense anyone =(( but im basically just trying to say I do a damn good job as is...Im enrolling in school online to start soon and straighting my credit to try for a house in Nov when my lease is up....Now on his casd he have 3 children by 3 different women...he a damn good father to his girls but his concern is his stablity right now...I actually went to the clinic today but I was emotional and crying they refused to service to me...I really didnt want to be there so they told me to think about it over the weekend and if I have a bad feeling dont come back..continue my pregnacy reguardless of what anyone thinks

I have been going to prenatal care I know the sex of the baby and I reaLly feel attached...I just wish he would find a heart and actually take my feelings into consideration...

please ladies just send me your Prayers I need them badly...Thanks
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Comments

  • MommysWorldMommysWorld
    Not to mention both of my children are in Great Charter schools...very well taken care of get everything a child could want...Im sure I can cut back on a few things to include another child
  • MamaCMamaC
    I hope that you are able to come to a decision for you and the baby. I thought 18 weeks was too late to have an abortion? I may be wrong, but I'm pretty sure they will only do it up until 16 weeks. But, it sounds like you're already very attached to this baby and bthat abortion may be the wrong decision for you. Like you said, you don't need him, you can do it on your own! Hugs and prayers your way.
  • HisWife2BeHisWife2Be
    Oh wow... Do u fear for ur safety if u had the baby?
  • tinka1326tinka1326
    Don't let anyone push you into a decision like that. If you allow another person to make that decision for you its something you will end up regretting...
  • MommysWorldMommysWorld
    @MamaC no this particular place go up to 24 weeks...(so sad)

    @HisWife2Be No hes not that type...he a good person just kinda selfish...
  • MamaCMamaC
    If you think you can do it on your own, then tell him and let him know that you have no expectations from him. If he doesn't want to be a dad, that's his problem. You've already proven that you can be a good mom and if you decide to do something that you're already having second thoughts about, you may regret your decision for a really long time.
  • HisWife2BeHisWife2Be
    In that case id have my baby! If you want to keep it and he dont want to handle his responsibility then thats on him. Dont go through with the abortion unless you feel like he would try to murder you or the child. There are some out here like that.
  • MommysWorldMommysWorld
    Thanks Ladies
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