once i found out i was having a baby all my friends dissapeared...every single one. i just wonder why ppl run away from preggos? im just a lonely mother i guess lol
I agree with Mama_Kat. After I got pregnant with my first I had no friends, after awhile I found mommy friends and I tend to have more in common and have a support group that understands better
@mshahir me either! anytime i see someone i 'use' to be friends with their like wow you had a baby?? um duh! you see this little girl that looks exactly like me?! ugh ppl suck
They do that cause they feel as though that we won't have time to do the things we used to do cause we have babies that obviously they don't want to be around
I have been lucky, but I was always there when my friends needed somebody. I also would cal them out if they did that. Plus my friends love babies. Lol
I don't understand it girl!! I'm lucky my best friend since like sixth grade us preggers too!! otherwise I would have no one but my family.. which is great but I think every girl needs friend too (:
Samething happend to me... Well I guess I was one of the lucky ones .. But only one friend dt comes visit every now n den but doesnt txt me dt much lol I guess its bcus shes in school idk idk
@KrazymomofAdrian i was too. i love babies! id always go visit them but i didnt get the same treatment pretty crappy of em but oh well. and for sure we can always chat
Awwwe I am sorry. If you wasnt to text someone in the wee hours of the morning. I am available too just let me know. I am also on facebook. How if bfing going too?
I can relate to the friends who stop talking to you, although I would never know that. But before I got pregnant my bff got pregnant and although I was extremely HAPPY for her I felt like it was going to come to the point where we had nothing in common because of course your priorites change when you become pregnant and more so when you become a mommy. I didn't stop talking to her but I knew when the baby came things would drastically change. MAYBE the friends that stop talking to you when you are pregnant are just getting ready for how it will be when you become a mommy.
@krazymomofadrian i dont have a facebook cuz my babe couldnt handle not adding his skanky old friend so we agreed to not have one /:-) the bf is going great. i think its a comfort thing for her too she cries for it but doesnt suckle just cuddles lol i love it:)
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