Omg yes , I have been an emotional wreck! , crying my eyes out one minute angry the next... feeling pretty calm at the moment tho hope you all can try and stay positive , we r all in it together
I'm having a crying day & continue to fight with my bf, everything he does gets on my nerves, I don't know what to do, I can't even be around him! Does anyone else feel this way? I don't know what to do, I feel like he is being insensitive, argumentative & doesn't listen. What do I do?
Give him kick up the bum! lol I'm having the same probs with mine at the moment. I found getting him to read an article about the major changes that r taking place in our bodies and pregnancy from another dads point of veiw really helped. He now understands pregnancy hormones and is a lot more reseptable to my mood swings, hang in there girl remember with out him u wouldn't have ur beautiful little miracle, xx
Thanks septemberbub, he has read things & says he understands but he picks arguments, is grumpy & always had to be right. He says I need help & everything is in my head. I try to just bite my tongue & allow him 2 have the last word, & walk away when he is wanting to have a pissing contest, but seriously I'm the one that's pregnant & he refuses to see that he is not being understanding & he needs to stop being argumentative grrr
Lol...tlg81. When he wants to fight, tell him that u both need a time-out. I won't lie, adults need a time-out sometimes. If this is his first kid... he is fighting with u cuz inside he is FREAKING out... its normal... annoying, but normal. He doesn't understand what is going on in ur body, n def not ur head. Just breathe, tell him he is going to be a great dad.. reasure him.. that's all. As for the over emotional stuff going on with us pregnant women... breathe, when the men are away, concentrate on u n that amazing little baby. Read to ur tummy, sing, dance, share a awesome lunch, talk to it. It strengthens ur bond with u n ur child. Go shopping together.. talk to ur baby in the middle of the store instead of talking to urself.. anyone looks at u weird, who cares. And just wait til u get mad n say something before u speak... it only gets better.
Thanks melc, I didn't think that he maybe scared. He is so excited about the baby, that I didn't think he would be nervous. I truly try to just allow him to have his words but its like nails on a chalkboard & I feel like he's the one preggo not me.
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As for the over emotional stuff going on with us pregnant women... breathe, when the men are away, concentrate on u n that amazing little baby. Read to ur tummy, sing, dance, share a awesome lunch, talk to it. It strengthens ur bond with u n ur child. Go shopping together.. talk to ur baby in the middle of the store instead of talking to urself.. anyone looks at u weird, who cares.
And just wait til u get mad n say something before u speak... it only gets better.