Need to vent...
Real men DO NOT EXIST. A real man does the right thing everytime. No matter what it is. A real man stands by his family. If you have break the law, don't run turn yourself in. If you have a problem you get the help that you need. If you USE a girl for sex to get off and she ends up pregnant, do the right thing and be there for her whether you want to or not. Cause its the right thing to do. Its doesn't matter if you want to or not. Because if you dont now it will only be worse for you later. You will pay for your crime.
Sorry if I offend any dads on here. You are indeed the rare breed. And please no negative comments.
Sorry if I offend any dads on here. You are indeed the rare breed. And please no negative comments.
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No one is perfect...but real men who do the right thing are there..they are just rare..My husband is a great great man! I dont expect him to be perfect, because I am not perfect, but we compliment each other perfectly! Keep looking , he is out there!
I now have an amazing husband. He isnt perfect by any means but neither am I. But he provides, adore, and do all the things a man should do.
Men have it so easy when we are pregnant, they can go get a drink or even run away when things get stressful and dont want to deal.
But I guess I disagree with they have it easy just bc my situation is different and I never experienced that side. I've had a pretty easy pregnancy so far(no sickness, or bad symptoms etc) and my husband told me to stop working so I can pretty much loaf and focus on this. He works 12 hr swing shifts, driven crazy daily by the task of his career, then comes home and does his role as a husband and expecting father(feeding cravings etc) so I would say he has it harder.
But I honestly hate that you have this additional stress added to your pregnancy. I hope it gets better.
Some men dont have the capacity to care about anyone but themselves..some are not even able to care about their children. I say move on, get some child support and stop worrying..if he cant step up to be a man then you dont need him
I kinda know how you feel. I was used by my ex and later on when he did start caring about me, we were talking and I said, "I think its sweet that you told me you loved me first." He replied, "I didn't mean it." WTF?!?!? I don't know what the hell he was thinking when he said that to me!
I used to think men were incapable of feeling love. I've been hurt by so many men including my narcissistic father who has luckily gotten a teeny bit better now that he's older. When I met my husband, I knew that wasn't true.
He walked me to my home a mile away and then turned back when I said that some m&ms sounded good. He bought me a huge bag and I met him halfway. We kissed on the sidewalk and when we hugged, he put his hand on my belly and said, "Weird. I imagined you being pregnant just then." We fell in love with each other that night.
My point is that there are great men out there and you'll meet your perfect match. He'll love you and your babies.
I'm rooting for you.