would any expectant moms attend a baby funeral?

cbr_girrliecbr_girrlie
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
My fiance's cousin went full-term and somehow found out the baby had no heartbeat and she had to deliver the baby anyway. Today she is having a wake at the funeral home for the baby. Would anyone attend while being preggers? I am 18 weeks and I just couldn't go! :( I feel so bad. Any advice?

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  • adaliesmommyadaliesmommy
    When I was about 15 weeks a friend from highschool accidently ran over his daughter who was 1 in a half. I went to visitation but I just couldn't actually go to the funeral.
  • cbr_girrliecbr_girrlie
    I just don't wanna get freaked out then start worrying too much
  • katlillykatlilly
    That's hard. I think for her sake you should go and show your support. It may be awkward between the two of you and your baby later. Just my opinion.
  • cbr_girrliecbr_girrlie
    We are not that close and I think she understands me not going.
  • debsdebs
    I think she will understand I lost my soon at 33 weeks and had to deliver him I couldn't and didn't want to be around anyone pregnant it was to hard I was happy for those that were pregnant but mad it hard to look at them cause it made me miss my son even more
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    @adaliesmommy ran over his daughter!?!?
  • cbr_girrliecbr_girrlie
    Thanks debs.
  • kayleigh27kayleigh27
    I probably wouldn't go. But I would sen a some flowers for her. It just might be too much for you and her at the funeral.
  • debsdebs
    I agree I would send a card something it meant a lot to me when I saw how many ppl carried and showed love for my son.
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