cheating army man

jnb0516jnb0516
edited February 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
My fiance and i are expecting our son on march 9th. He got home from AIT for the army on december 15th. On january 1st i found facebook messages sent to another woman in the army. He had said "i love you sexy". I asked him and he denied it. Last night when he went to work i showed my mother the message. I found another he sent to his ex on october 15th. Four days after we found out we're having a dallas. He said i miss your perfect body. I'm sure it's more perfect now. I'm in love with you. I don't know what to do. He finally admitted it after hours of interrogation last night. He claims he didn't mean it but i don't trust him. What do i do if dallas comes before we resolve this? My baby didn't deserve this.

Comments

  • KingsmamaKingsmama
    U be the best Damn mommy u can :) I myself would drop him like a bad habit and not look back. And ur baby doesn't need u to be with the dad to grow up happy and well taken care of. As long as he's there to help raise his child u will be fine and prolly happier. I wish u the best just know lots of babies r born into the world everyday with parents who aren't together. Just move on, hold ur head high and be an awesome and loving mom :)
  • jnb0516jnb0516
    I never imagined he would do this to me. It hurts so much i wouldn't be shocked if it triggers my labor. My heart breaks for my son. He should have thought of him. He should always think of him.
  • awaamommyawaamommy
    Jnb0516- If you guys are married and he's active duty I would report him.. He wants to be with his ex thats fine but I would make sure he has noting when he gose back to her.. Be strong for your baby!
  • mommy2audreymommy2audrey
    I agree with awamommy you need to go. To his boss and tell him ASAP I'm active duty and guys like him make the millitary look bad. He is NOT going to be a good example for your child. Once a cheater always a cheater. Sorry hun
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    edited February 2011
    I hate that this happened......but as far as reporting him, don't do it until he shows you he has no intentions of taking care of the child bc if you do it prior you can kinda be killing your finances....bc Yah it'll feel good to get him what he deserves but how can he pay child support without a job
  • jnb0516jnb0516
    We're engaged. We hadn't got married yet. He's an embarrassment to the us army. I know they have principles and they're taught honor. He's not honored me as a future wife or the mother of his child.
  • cbr_girrliecbr_girrlie
    Good luck sweety!
  • jnb0516jnb0516
    Thank you
  • ashesashes
    What is this about getting reported? One of my best friends friends is with a guy who is cheating on her in Afghanistan ...he even messaged me on facebook and asked to hook up when he got home. I know the girl well and would love to play along to catch the fker so she would finally rid him, but I just don't have the heart to seemingly deceive her like that... our mutual frie.d has caught him before and still has the messages so I'm wondering what this reporting stuff is all about
  • NeekNeek
    I just sent a prayer up for you and your family.... Good luck
  • ajones83ajones83
    First sorry this happen to u. I just got out the army. The army is nothing but a big whore house. 96.4 % are cheating dogs. Just to let u know u can't report him unless your married. What u should do us collect child support from him when your child is born
  • jnb0516jnb0516
    I will be asking for child support. I never thought when we were trying for our son that he'd do this.
  • ailyaily
    I'm sorry that u going thru this right now I know its hard I'm expecting too n he just broke up w me. I don't the sex of the baby yet but it feels like its a girl. I'm 17wks n I am hurting but I need to be strong for my baby n figure out how to provide cuz I only have the crib lol. Be strong things happens for a reason n remember u r not alone.
  • awaamommyawaamommy
    Yeah you have to be married..@Jnb0516... But you still can get child support. Even though you not married I would still report him. Are u getting any benfits from him now?
  • mrs_americamrs_america
    Don't get mad get even! Pregnant or not.
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