Kind of having a rough night...

mikeysgirlmikeysgirl
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
My baby's dad is in jail, and tonight when he called he started to cry because he can't come to my 2nd trimester doctor's appointment. He NEVER cries, and to hear him so upset broke my heart. I'm trying to stay positive, and look at it like I'm lucky that he cares as much as he does, but I am so angry and upset that he's not with me. I never thought I'd go through my first pregnancy alone; I miss him more than I can put into words. On Friday, he will have his hearing and I will find out if he'll be around when the baby's born. If ya'll could just pray for me, my baby, and my baby's daddy I would really appreciate it.

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  • Karla_with_a_KKarla_with_a_K
    Why is he in jail?
  • blueberrysmomblueberrysmom
    I'm praying for you guys!
  • mikeysgirlmikeysgirl
    Probation violation; he didn't go to drug and alcohol classes. He's on probation for forging a check for $200 when he was 16. :(
  • preggointxpreggointx
    That's messed up hope he can come home to u two.
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  • mikeysgirlmikeysgirl
    Is that really relevant? He violated twice. Once for possession of weed, and then he didn't go to classes he was supposed to go to. I really didn't post this so that I could go over his criminal backround. Thanks for those who've been supportive.
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  • mikeysgirlmikeysgirl
    I'm sorry if I was wrong, I'm just used to being treated like a criminal because he is. People hear "bd is in jail" and they automatically assume deadbeats. I'm just hurting. :(
  • Mommy2Be777Mommy2Be777
    Aww keep your head up mama don't stress its not good for baby, just think you have the second best thing to him, half of him your carrying his baby things will get better with time , it could be good he was crying which means jails got him sitting there thinking hard , n he's hurting just like you are he will be a even better person when he gets out, good luck and you guys r in my prayers
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  • mikeysgirlmikeysgirl
    Thank you all for your kind words!
  • bee_2545bee_2545
    I'm srri ill keep u in my prayers I really hope everything works out for u...I kno how it feels goin thru ur pregnancy alone n I hope the hearing goes in your favor so he won't miss everything. Good luck
  • mrs_wainrightmrs_wainright
    sorry girl! my hubby was in jail for probation violation.. he had a theft by check so it wasn't like for murder lol.... but he was always out by the time my appointments came. and I definitely understand crying over it.. I. cried every night I had to sleep without him and my son didn't like him being gone either! chin up darling, hope everything goes yalls way(:
  • islandgirlislandgirl
    Im sorry to hear that hun. I was just finished cryin cuz my brother told me he's goin to jail on Wednesday and Thursday cuz of DUI. I know its hard but theres isnt anythin we can do. Ill keep u and ur bf in my prayers. God bless u.
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  • SalasMommySalasMommy
    I wish u the best! I hope he is there when ur bundle of joy gets here ;)

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    Thinking of you!
  • Nebraskamommy2beNebraskamommy2be
    I hope hell be here for the birth of your precious baby!!
    My husband was in prison work release and I cried and cried until he got parole. I just wanted to start our lives together and prayed he'd be home for the birth of our baby :)
    I also know what you mean being judged cause your man is a criminal.. people change and my husband is a wonderful man. :)
    Sorry to make this long I just wanted to show I can relate!
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