*vent* how do i deal....want to cry & slap some1 at the same time.

one5oneone5one
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
My preg is a special time. Its been a long time since my last. I hardly have any fam. My aunt & cousin & her son plus my & my fam. I don't care for my cousin at all. The idiot still lives at home ( she's 28!) Had a boy(4yo) by a man with 5 other kids. She don't work (aunt pays for everything). She selfish & mean. I stay away. So today she supposed to go for lapband( she's heavy & too lazy to do anything about it). Well aunt calls says dr can't operate.....THE PIECE OF SH*T IS PREG!!!! my poor aunt. More stress on her! Cousins gonna steal my shine! I'm beyond sad. Babys r a blessing but my cousin will make it all bout her as always. Ive wantn to cut her out my life( love my aunt & the boy.) What do I do???? I'm livid about this! Advice.please. I'm gonna cry.

Comments

  • cherylrwcherylrw
    Nothing you can do about her. Take care of you and your baby!
  • one5oneone5one
    I'm trying my best! This is stress I don't need because my aunt will come to me & complain. I'm high risk. I'm just really.....idk broken & tired of cousins garbage.
  • kayleigh27kayleigh27
    I have two cousins the same way. Minus the overweight part. Both of them are ages 29 and 27 and live at home. The daughter has two kids 11 yrs and 15 months. By two different fathers. The son has one kid 4 months. They hardly work and constantly go out to party, and my aunt pays with it with money she dont have. She works two jobs to pay the bills. And let's them get away with murder. They leave all the kids with my grandma who's like 87 yrs old and don't even offer to pay her, take her to run errands, or take her and my.grandfather to their doctor appointments! My female cousin even claimed them on her tax rerurns so that she would get the money! When my mom is the one who does everything for my.grandparents. Whenever my aunt talks about them she always says 'i never let my kids do that!' Or 'i was always at home with my kids!' When she actually had her mother (the same grandmother ) raise her kids.

    When I went to visit them with my husband last year they were so rude to us! But hey its family what can you do?
  • one5oneone5one
    @kayleigh27 family does you worse than strangers sometimes!! My aunt even said that oh since you two are preg you should be buddya....um noo!! I said I don't like her. I doubt she was even pregnant. But aunt called &said shed like for my & kid to meet her for breakfast on moms day. Ill go & act normal. But I didn't go there for Easter & aunt was sad. Said it wasn't the same w/o me. & that cuz needs to act better too. Ehh. She'll never change. Love my aunt but she is an enabler.
  • one5oneone5one
    I think I posted an update too
    Cuz lost the kid day after she found out. I think she lied bout it all. Was too scared to go thru w surgery & used preg to her mom as an excuse. Then convienently lost the baby next day or so she said to her mom. She didn't even want me to know. Aunt said ...don't say anything but she lost the baby. Aunt said cuzin was relieved!! Wtf relieved to lose your baby?? Absurd. If your relieved your should take better precautions to prevent pregnancy in the first place!
  • kayleigh27kayleigh27
    Lol yeah that's what my aunt is too. Maybe she did fake a pregnancy...
  • one5oneone5one
    @kayleigh27 if u ask me I think she did. I known her her whole life. She's a liar & manipulater. Ugh
  • sassypantssassypants
    I say, in the future, slap first...cry later. I'm hoping you don't let your immature cousins dictate your pregnancy and your happiness. YOU and baby are number one above all other bs. *hugging you*.
  • one5oneone5one
    @sassypants nope I just don't bother w her anymore. My stress that week was sky high. And aunt wants us to be nice. I am nice! Nicely staying away. But I know I can't avoid her forever. Aunts invited me & daughter out for moms day. Cousins gonna be there. Ugh but there wont be a problem. I'm an adult!
  • one5oneone5one
    Hows this for her acting grown. She told my aut that aunt can't go to my shower!! Cuz aunt didn't go to hers. Your unmarried no job. Aunt was pissed & didn't go cuz your a loser! Aunt said ill do as I please. If I want to go I will. I hope they both come!! See how a real showers thrown!
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