getting worried

due9novdue9nov
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
heres what it is, me and my man have 2 girls aged 13 and 8 and thought we were done having babies but here i am 12w5d and we are over the moon now the shock has settled, the thing is we both would like a son but in my eyes if its another girl and shes healthy then great but i just disscussed what if its a girl with my man and he wont, he keeps saying its a boy and i said but what if its not and he wont even consider it might be a girl, he loves his princesses more than life but a son would make him feel complete i think, what im worried is if it is a girl he rejects her or blames me for not giving him a little boy, i just dont know what to say to make him realise we might have a 3rd girl

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  • Chuieycuzca22Chuieycuzca22
    Well honey he can't blame you at all for not creating a boy. That's all up to him. I'm sure it will be OK with him either way. Don't let it bring you down.
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    My coworker is in this position. Has a 5yo, almost 2yo and now another girl due in June like me. He's truly bummed about not having a boy. I feel bad idk what to say but least they are all healthy girls.
  • Kate_KKate_K
    If its a girl I bet he is unhappy for a while. But if his girls are his princesses he will do the some with this one....
  • silverfairy silverfairy
    He may be disappointed but he will still love her the same don't worry just enjoy the pregnancy and if baby is a girl give him space and time to get his head round it he will appreciate that and by time baby comes he will fall in love with her :)
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  • jellybelly1015jellybelly1015
    My pastor has four girls and always says God doesn't send boys where a real man is. I may not agree with that, but that might help him if it turns out to be another girl :)
  • Mom2bIA0528Mom2bIA0528
    My boyfriend and his whole family wanted a boy and wouldn't consider it being a girl they even told his 4 year old daughter it was a boy, so when we went and got the ultrasound n "he" was a actually a she his 4 year old bawled like freaked out and wouldn't talk to anyone because they lied to her (also her mom told her she has to share all her toys now bc I'm having a girl which back fired now that she just found out she is having a girl in aug) my bf family seemed mad too but my boyfriend said it would have been nice to have a son but I would never trade my 3 girls (me, his 4 yo, n baby on the way) for anything in the world
  • due9novdue9nov
    thank you ladies i hope your right, @tammy if it is a girl i'll defo give him time to get his head around it.
    @breezzy_baby1 when do you find out the sex?
    @jellybelly1015 i told him what your pastor says and it made him smile so might get round him

    send me some blue dust just in case lol xx
  • jellybelly1015jellybelly1015
    :) Blue Dust Just in Case!!!
  • sheila303sheila303
    And how could he be so sure!? did he personally speak to his 700,000,000 sperm as they entered your vagina and told the Y chromosome sperms to swim as fast as they can? oh men! My best friend just had a baby boy and her husband wanted a girl...she felt bad as if it was her fault! BUMP THAT!! The man carries the X Or Y chromosome in each sperm gah!
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  • due9novdue9nov
    @breezzy_baby1 aww thats not so good, i would have been heart broken if i never got a pic. I got my first ultrasound at 11wk and my next is 20th june im so excited. is this your 1st?
  • due9novdue9nov
    @ sheila303 ive told him this before and his reply was well you have to catch the boy haha he was joking
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  • due9novdue9nov
    @breezzy_baby1 well i hope all goes well and you get your picture at your next ultrsound, you wont stop looking at it, its amazing seeing your very own baby
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