Ugh! So disgusted so hurt so pissed can't sleep.. </3 ;(

BrokenWingsBrokenWings
edited April 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
Sooooo I was at my friends house my bd never met her b4 she's a new friend... She was creating a new Facebook.. And guess who happens to message her my bd! Wow he was like hey gorgeous how r u??? OMG! He's done this b4 and deleted his Facebook and promised me he wouldn't do that again! Im so fed up he won't change.. Top it off he hasnt been home since Monday.. Idk what 2 do..i haven't confrotd him yet I simply am tired of dealing w this.. I'm 8 mos pregg.. I'm so sad but then again not surprised..

Comments

  • lilpeapod913lilpeapod913
    Forget him! My ex did that bs and I dropped him so fast. He was so insecure and needed apparently more attention than I gave him. He created a monster in me. We were very short lived but in that time he made me feel horrible! I'm sorry you are going thru this, especially being pregnant. My advice would be to leave that situation. As hard as that is, he isn't ready to change. Do you have family or friends you could stay with?
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    same here. my ex did that bs on myspace.. thats y hes now an ex. you deserve soo much better. a man who really loves you. its hard at first but in the end you end up with someone who will really cherish you and treat you like a queen!!!
  • BrokenWingsBrokenWings
    I kno if he really loved me he wouldn't do this rite I'm so hurt I can't stop crying... And no I don't have any fam w me in Cali.. Y when I'm pregnant.. Wow so incredible
  • mommakk88mommakk88
    Well said above me my ex use to do that too I finally got tired of it n told him about it he said he would change n well not a chance. I decided it was time to end it shortly after I found the man of my dreams that I am still with today n we r expecting our daughter in Aug :) everyone is guna have their problems but no one should have to go through that its not ok.
  • BrokenWingsBrokenWings
    I've gave this guy many chances simply cause Im pregg and I don't wanna b alone.. I feel so stupid.. As bad as I want my baby to have a family.. I gotta c was rite 4 me tho..
  • mammanoucheemammanouchee
    See what is right for you and your baby. A man like that don't deserve a family. He is pathetic, sorry to be harsh. You deserve better and no women who is esp preggo should go through that. I'm sorry hun but I say drop the dead beat and move on. You are more than what he treats you and your baby. He is a lame ass. Sorry.
  • ckazfirstckazfirst
    I say, break it off you were strong enough to make it thru 8 months you can do it alone. So many women do, our bodies know how to deal and right now you are super vulnerable. There's no need for stress and drama. Good luck but don't end this pregnancy in a soap opera status.
  • mommakk88mommakk88
    He's not good for u or the baby in my experience it doesn't get any better either n the longer u wait the harder it is to leave. Get out while u can hun u n that baby deserve so much better. U will find a better guy out there eventually I promise
  • BrokenWingsBrokenWings
    I kno I kno it just seems alot harder cause I'm pregnant but I can't take this anymore..
  • simonesimone
    @BrokenWings omg im so sorry this happend to u. It ain't rite esp while ur preggo...i think instead of listening to wat ppl r tellin u,u need to talk to him. Tho its hard try not to stress.
  • Karla_with_a_KKarla_with_a_K
    If he loves you, he wouldnt do that. You can do and deserve so much better!
  • Jess510Jess510
    @brokenwings I think you should leave him as well, but I know how hard it can be. You'll make the decision when your ready.
  • abeecatabeecat
    I'd dump him if I were you. You can't trust him, and you are not gonna change him. You will be better off w/ out him than wasting your emotional energy on his bs. Goodluck sweety!
  • BrokenWingsBrokenWings
    Is killing me but I'm trying 2 stay strong..
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