My BD get on my Nerves!!!! (Venting)

LovelyyAriesLovelyyAries
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
I am almost 7 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend has lost 3 babies in the past so he doesn't ask me about my pregnancy and has not went to the doctors with me. I can understand he doesn't want to get his hopes up, but I need his support. His attitude is pissing me off. He thinks he can talk to me any kind of way and I won't allow it. Just because I am carrying his baby, he thinks he has the upper hand. I am fed up and this is only the beginning. I know my hormornes are all over the place, but I am doing the best I can to stay calm and not stress. I want a successful pregnancy...this is my 1st. But, I do have family support. I told him to leave me alone and that I am fed up.... He should be keeping me happy. I don't know what it is....he wanted this baby badly. I'm 20 & he is 23. I don't want to be one of those evil babymommas....but he is tempting me. If things don't get better, I will not let him name our child, and the baby won't have his last name. I just do not want to miscarry. Any advice????

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  • LovelyyAriesLovelyyAries
    You are probably right. And I can understand how he may feel, but why treat me that way. It's making me regret it because by him acting this way isn't healthy for me nor the baby. I feel sad and I feel like he can tell me what he is feeling instead of mistreating me.
  • clope18clope18
    I know how you feel. I'm 20yrs & my BD is 22 & he makes me feel exactly how you're feeling. Just ignore him. Everytime he starts to make you angry or stress out..just remember that you have a beautiful gift inside you & can feel everything you feel. Baby needs to be first priority..don't let BD get to u, its not worth it. Hope this helps, good luck to you & baby ;)
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  • preggointxpreggointx
    Mine gets on my nerves to he is supportive but I need monetary support and that's where he gets on my nerves
  • LovelyyAriesLovelyyAries
    @clope18 thank you....i know my baby comes first and that is my main focus. Im sorry that you're growing through It too but, lets be encouraged.... I will try my best because I know how angry I can get lol.

    @richjen24 I think a break would be best. This will teach him to appreciate me....i don't feel the love at all. So over it. but I thank you for your advice. :)

    @preggointx i'm glad you have support....if I had support, I wouldn't be complaining. Its just the fact i'm preggo and being mistreated....can't deal with it and I won't.
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