me && the child dad

edited May 2011 in Second Trimester
Ugh I swear its a back and forth game I don't want to do this alone but I surely will I don't need a sometimes dad you know??they say army men are the best..pfft the lied

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  • army men r the best bcause they are never home n give u lots of love when they are
  • Interesting. :-?
  • But I do understand that u dnt want a Mayb daddy
  • @bummy87 yes that's true but money isn't an issue with me I've got plenty of that I want a father figure you know??? @pooh22 yeah very interesting. I grew up without a dad I don't want my child to do the same. A mother is a mother a soon as she finds out she's pregnant however a father really isn't a father until he sees the child
  • That is so tru so ill tell u this if he is stressing u out n dnt step up wen ur baby is here it might b best for yal to go ur separate ways cuz if u r resenting him ur child will feel it to n I dnt mean while ur preggers either I mean they might think he is an off n on again dad like he is n ur relationship I had my dad n my life my whole life n I feel the pain my mother went thru during her marriage all the fights arguing ect. N I'm trying my hardest to not b wit a man like that
  • Is he home n just doesnt want to help or is he always working? And that saying isnt true cuz i kno alot of guys who still dont act like they have a kid after there born
  • @pooh exactly I feel the same way my dad came around when he wanted too. I don't want my child to experience the same heart ache. @wiseccourt I'm not saying that the saying applys to all men but most of them. He's a e5 he's making a career out of the army he is constantly busy but this reject got two different article 15 for being late so he's got extra duty for forty five days and he's restricted to post until th 22 its been almost two months since I seen him ugh I hope it gets better
  • I love this website I got pregnant friends lol
  • I dont believe thats tru. I was a father the momemt she told me she was pregnant. b also tru. some men will never b fathers even when that baby is in their arms
  • @firsttimedaddy I agree but my childs father is 23 in the army you guys can only imagine what I deal with I guess my man selecting skills suck
  • but at least he is out there providing for his family right.. I mean he could b just as absent from ur life n b out there doing nothing w his time
  • That's so true I didn't even look @ it in that way. I'm just used to us constantly being around so I just miss him more then anything
  • not about money its more about how much time u can stand being around a man lol my dads army n went away ALOT it @as hard for mum at the start with 4 girls under 5 n several jobs but she learned to love it, 25yrs down the track they are still together dad just got out but apologizes to mum everyday 4 not being there
  • not about money its more about how much time u can stand being around a man lol my dads army n went away ALOT it @as hard for mum at the start with 4 girls under 5 n several jobs but she learned to love it, 25yrs down the track they are still together dad just got out but apologizes to mum everyday 4 not being there
  • @keisha is this your first child r u working
  • @keishab where are you from my baby dad is in the army to and we barely talk it's lonely alot maybe we can be texting buddies I'm due oct26
  • @zexy4da011 yay texting buddies I need that he's always gone it feel like I never see him. Not many people can relate to me when I talk about my childs father being military.@bummy87 yeah I'm sure he does. I just want my child to have both of us
  • Yeah I know where you from I'm from illinois its hard but I work so I try not to worry alot
  • Girl I know what you mean. My husband is in the army also and it's like back and forth!! You want him there but he just can't be. Like what my husband tells me" babe, I will be back for you, never gonna leave." That puts hope in my heart :) its all good girl. Need anybody, I'm here :)
  • Ok send me your number and ill text you I'm from washington its soooo boring here lol
  • @mammanouchee thank you so nice to have somebody to relate to me I thought I was alone lol when you due??? @zexy send me ur num
  • No girl, you are not alone!! I'm due sept 5. You? Where is your husband stationed at? How far long are you?
  • @keisha I just posted it on ur wall
  • Wats it like in washington I always thought being that the president is there ur should always be lively
  • @mammanouchee I'm four months due october 20 and he is stationed at fort lewis. @zexy no silly not d.c. washington state I'm by seattle
  • Oh lol there goes the brain did you get my #
  • Yes I did I texted you did you get it???
  • um no its 843-475-0264
  • Inbox me your #
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