Depressed.. I think.

edited May 2011 in Pregnant
I extremly miss my family. Moved to ny from tx so we could have a better life, better jobs and whatever else. I wasn't mentallyor emotionally ready to move here. I did it more cause the bf is from here, he moved to tx to be with me. He missed his city life (not social) and select friends. He (I too) was getting frustrated with not finding a job in the town we lived in. It was a small town where my mom lives, ok fine. But at the same time we could have moved 2 hours to where I'm from, between Houston and Galveston, where there are jobs, and the town isn't small. But no, money wise it was easier to move here to ny and stay with friends than to have our own place in tx. All along he knew and still knows that I wanted my child born in texas, I'm a texan and we take pride in being one. I don't know anyone in my family who hasn't been born in texas, forreal. So, I feel I gave in to his frustration, and I wanted to be the righorter and make it right. I'm scared my Mom wont make it here for when Malia is born, she can't work due to back surgery and relies on unemployment. I will be devistated if she isn't here, she will be too. I feel like I let my family down by moving here, I'm so close with my mom sister and nephew. I cried the whole plane trip here, I'm crying now. I guess I just don't what to do cause at the same time, I do have a good boyfriend. I'm lost. I know my mom would say come home, in a heartbeat.

Comments

  • *righorter = supporter.
  • I moved from California to North Carolina, and i cries the whole trip too. But I did it also bc there were jobs out there and not in cali. Just have to give it time. I would give it a couple months, and if you still aren't satisfied, tell the bf how you feel and see if you guys can work something out. Keep your head up, everything is an adjustment. :)
  • No jobs now = we wont have even the necessities for the baby come Aug/Sept. I wont be having a baby shower cause I don't know anyone, and it doesn't look like people are going to send or order anything from my registries. I already told him I don't want to live here forever. I really never planned on leaving my home state and I've definitely never been this far from the three main family members. Thank you.
  • Your gonna name your daughter malia?? If I have a girl I was gonna name her malia lol I haven't heared anyone naming there daughter malia till now
  • Yes I am @mommytobe505 Malia Riley Padilla .Due Aug 25. Before I was pregnant, I was looking at names and loved Melita, but after a while of saying it in my head, I came up with a new name. lol. I haven't heard of anyone naming their daughter that either.

    On a side note, I feel much better after doing some talking.
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