I wudnt say thy shudnt b ashamed if ur pregnant n u feel sum typa way about sumone smoking around u mayb u shud go to another area...its not thyre fault ur pregnant...but my bfs aunt smokes weed n she always makes me leave the room...my bf smokes both n he doesn't do it around me if were n the car he puts the windows dwn...but to sum degree I'm scared of second hand smoke lol so I tend to stay away especially since I'm pregnant n I also hate the smell but everyone's diff...jus my opinion not everyone knows the risk of second hand smoke
i also agree with @hubz1stbaybay I cud care less wat ne1 else does as lng as we do wats right for our children thn y stress about sum1 else is doing like hubz said sum ppl r affected sum rnt my mom has 5kids n she smoked wit all of us n were all fine watchn her jus taught me how addictive it is n I will nevr smoke I'm too pretty for tht
@hubz1stbaybay thanks for your input but you sound pretty stupid, like i said this is about two people I know very well. One that is pregnant with my niece or nephew! So yes i have every right to be concerned. But thanks for your 2 cents. And as I also stated I dont care enough about people I dont know to upset myself with them but it does upset me to see my brother very upset and worried about his baby and nothing he can do to stop the harm shes causing. And gay marriage really? i could give two sh!ts less about gay marriage they dont put lives of babies at risk L-)
@ same sex.marriage lol way off topic that's a topic for a diff day...i couldn give a rats as about wat a next man do with his ass hole...that don't mean I wont voice my opinions
It bothers me because my sister smoked with both her kids. The 1st came out completely healthy, but the 2nd...not so much. He weighed just over 5lbs and he has a few other issues. I don't want anyone else to go through that.
@sdubios u call me what u want ur a judgmental person with problems. You obviously think u have the power to judge others and nothing I can say will change that so call me what u want. Im simply stating that if u feel u have to judge someone and call me names then u are no good either. I can see ur the type of person who will only feel better by putting others down. It kills u that u can't make people do what u feel they should do its not ur place. And u don't even know me so to judge me and call me stupid is stupid. And as far as the same sex marrage idea it was simply an example on how others judge someone on their ideas or belifs of their own. Funny how u are calling me names already and I've known u all but two seconds.....ur about to have a baby and u are calling someone stupid...now do u think that is right?? Humm let's see what if ur child is born with a learning disability?? Would u be so quick to call someone stupid then...have u ever thought maybe u should just worry about u and ur baby before ever worrying about anyone elses? Seriously grow up!
Sometimes people hear what they want to hear. NO doctor tells you NOT to quit if you smoke. Their words are don't quit cold turkey because THAT will be put stress on the baby. This by the way only applies if you are a heavy smoker. They DO still tell you to cut back and taper off so that eventually and BEFORE you're even in the 3rd trimester you will not be smoking at all
@babyluv_3 I agree 100% every doc nutritionist have all sed DONT CUT COLD TURKEY ITS MOR HARMFUL TO THE BABY even healthy start program sed it. Plus a nutritionist sed if u breastfeed the 1st 6mos it will reverse all that bad smoking caused (no formula at all)
I didn't call YOU stupid I said you sound stupid by judging me and saying I'm probably again gay marriage because I don't think people who are pregnant should smoke...really I didn't post this for silly drama you don't know me and I don't know you so I'm not going to argue with you. I have strong opinions like lots of others but that doesn't male me a mean person,Im allowed mine just like you are! So think what you want of me but your wrong,have a great day
but at the same time I agree with @hubz1stbaybay I dont have a right to judge. I know women who smoke everything from blacks to weed. That aint my child and what you subject your child to is your business
Wow how mature to start a post bashing moms who smoke. I had to stop half way through. Why is it fair to start something so obviously bashing against moms? I just quit smoking a week ago and I'm 16 weeks. But i guess that makes me a bad selfish ignorant mom right? This post is totally against the rules @mama_kat@mrsdelrae. Its not a discussion its a total bash session. And it sucks a lot of thw girls i like on here are going with it.
I have to agree with @hubz1stbaybay. What gives any of us the right to judge others. Its not your baby its theirs. I guess I don't see why we had to post another drama post on here.
I started smoking again after having my son and after breastfeeding because I had a lot going on at that time. I never smoked around my son and I washed my hands as soon as I came in.
@HomeBirthAdvocate I also don't understand y someone would start back not judging but as I just quit at 27 weeks now am 32 I couldnt imagine wasting all my hard work in two months by lighting back up
@sara102011 ur right she seems to think differently but whatever. Its immature to judge someone else for the way they live their lives then call someone stupid for making an educated statement! Who cares what everyone else does. Its very immature to post something lime this and she knew it would start drama. There is no doubt in mine and everyone elses mind why she posted it. I may have thought like her in the past but seriously I've thought long and hard about this and u have no right to judge someone else. And if that makes me stupid...well to the person calling me stupid then that makes u immature plain and simply said.
Or let their babies or plan on future babies sleeping in bed with them. I think its great there are so many perfect parents that feel the need to bash people they dont know. Are they going to raise their kids to judge others?
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Sometimes people hear what they want to hear. NO doctor tells you NOT to quit if you smoke. Their words are don't quit cold turkey because THAT will be put stress on the baby. This by the way only applies if you are a heavy smoker.
They DO still tell you to cut back and taper off so that eventually and BEFORE you're even in the 3rd trimester you will not be smoking at all