I hate my husband!
I am really starting to hate my husband. Ever since I became pregnant, he has been a complete asshole. He waits to we get to the doctors office to smoke. Then comes in smelling like smoke, sitting around all of these pregnant women, myself included. I told him to wait to do that when we leave and get home, but he says its no big deal, the baby can't smell it. Well, I don't smoke and I hate the smell. last night he rubbed my stomach, telling the baby "don't grow up to be an asshole". I couldn't believe he said that. I'm 7 months, got put on bedrest mid january and currently do not have the income coming in I once had. So I'm pretty much dependant on him. He refuses to pay the rent on time, he'll only give 100, then constantly making payment arraingments without telling me. The lights were recently disconnected, cells cut off and car repo'ed all because he lied and said he paid the bills. When I asked him where all the money went, if not on bills, he states "mind your own business". Once again, we're married, that IS my business. The money I had saved for going on maternity leave I had to use to reconnect everything and get his car back. My car is paid for. I just really needed to vent, cause I'm about to go crazy. I tired talking to his mother about the situation, she just says, "i'm sorry to hear that". Nothing more. I tired going to a counselor together, he refuses. I made a budget and he won't stick to it. So, I'm just ready to take the last of my saving, move in with my mom, until I have my son, and get a divorce. If not, yall might catch me on "snapped" lol
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It sounds like he is really being rotten and VERY self-centered. What a shame, when this should be a time of great joy for you both. Did he ever act like this before ya'll were married, or is this one of those cases of the man really changing after "I do" is said?