what you do? honest opinions please

serenitysmommyserenitysmommy
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
I paid my bf phone bill and noticed all of these calls from florida and I asked him who it was and he was like he has friends all over and that could be just a guy... So I blew it of then I see the number a again and the talk everyday when I'm at work... So I call the number at it his ex gf. So I curse him out he said she only a friend. Should I be mad? Kick him out ? I'm so confused!
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    Do they have any kids together?
  • SamiUKSamiUK
    Make him pay his own phone bill!
  • jenniferann2685jenniferann2685
    Well I don't see that its right. If they were just "friends" why did he have to keep it from you. And 2nd it all depends on how yalls relationship is.. if y'all both let each other talk to your ex's then I guess its not as much of a problem. But I personally don't allow things like that =/
  • mschopmschop
    He should not be hiding it, but shes an ex my BF talks to all his ex's and I have even became friends with some of them. So the issue is why dose he feel like he has to lie?
  • lexi34lexi34
    I agree wiyh samiuk..we as women spoil men and create monsters and when they walk all over us we wanna know why..he lied to you one and if its his ex no need to b taking to her like that @serenitysmommy
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    i wouldnt allow it. there is no reason for a someone to talk to their ex unless they have kids together. but thats just my opinion. and if i am paying someones phone bill to talk to another female, i would go the hell off. he needs to have respect for you. would he like it if he was paying for gas to put in your car to go see another man? hell no!
    im sorry, i really hate men at this moment. it hasnt been a good day
  • serenitysmommyserenitysmommy
    @tootie08 no, I have 1 with him and 1 on the way @Samiuk he does, he just gets paid once a month so sometimes I'll pay it and he'll give it back to me.
  • serenitysmommyserenitysmommy
    @mschop that's my who thing am I not worthy of the truth
  • serenitysmommyserenitysmommy
    @mschop that's my who thing am I not worthy of the truth
  • serenitysmommyserenitysmommy
    @ittybitty exactly! I also work for sprint I'm tempted to go and block her number. He shouldve just been honest from th start. I had talk to exs before but I did it in his face and I told him who he was.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    Girl I would bleach his clothes and break that phone. He has no reason to converse with his ex if they don't have any kids! I know that's not good ad advice but that's just me and how I would probably handle that situation! When it comes down to calling an ex that's a big no, no [-X
  • JerseyMommyJerseyMommy
    Wow dats a hard one...how long has it been since they broke up? Y is he talking to his ex every day? N if ur nt comfortable wit tell him he needs to stop n if he dnt then dats wen u think about kicking him out
  • SamiUKSamiUK
    Oh right i get ya he shouldn't have hid it from ya simplez, i talk to one of my ex's and my fiancee gets on with him too is there no chance you could speak to her to? does she know your pregnant?
  • SamiUKSamiUK
    Oh right i get ya he shouldn't have hid it from ya simplez, i talk to one of my ex's and my fiancee gets on with him too is there no chance you could speak to her to? does she know your pregnant?
  • RoxyRoxy
    Idk wat to say but call her ask her wat they talk about b nice thow
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    i would do it and id tell him i was doing it and if he wants to run his mouth tell him to take his ass to florida. l0l! ok it might not be good to listen to me right now, i really cant stand any man in my life at the moment.. my childs father had a ex write him one time and it even said "i know im not suppose to be writing u but...." and i seen it the same time he did and he tried to lie and say it was someone else. it was a phone that i bought and paid for monthly. i tried to call the bitch but he had the nerve to break the phone before i could. stupid trick...
  • JerseyMommyJerseyMommy
    Dnt call her cause u might not always get da truth...cause me being da bi**h dat I am I wuld say n e thing to make my ex's Gf mad or to break them up...all I can say is follow ya heart n stick wit ya gut feeling
  • serenitysmommyserenitysmommy
    @Ittybitty ugh! Just trifflin! I'm definitely blocking the number tomorrow but didn't tell you that right after I called her (and she never answers the phn) she had the nerve to fb him saying "I love you profile pic your daughter is so cute" like she wanted me to know who she was... I messaged her and said don't fb book him and don't comment on MY daughter. She is messin with the wrong bm.
  • serenitysmommyserenitysmommy
    @Jerseymommy thanks and I already tried thank goodness she didn't answer the phn I was about go off. Thanks
  • JenniieeJenniiee
    Ohh no I wouldnt allow that at all ! [-X
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    wow.. y cant women not mess with someone elses man. i mean i understand when a female doesnt know but she clearly knows that he has someone. i hate females like that..
    we're not together or even talking as of today but i wish one of those wh*res would say or try something like that. i am short and skinny but they all know better to ever let me find out something or have the nerve to say something like that.
  • xFirstTimeMomxxFirstTimeMomx
    It's just the mere fact he kept it from you and lied to Lu about who it was. Then calling her everyday?? That's an absolute no no. And she's crossing the line to comment a picture and such to be known that's just foolish, immature, and low. She's trying to do it to piss out off. I'd flip. Talk to him about it and be like look. And if he continues to do stuff flip out and let him know what's what. Would he like it if out did that to him? I don't think so. Men these days... -_-
  • serenitysmommyserenitysmommy
    @Ittybitty Lol if you would have seen me at work on my break today when I found out who she was. I was ready to whoop some ass for real. Then he had the nerve to say I didn't wana tell you cause I knew how you would act... Whatever! It just pisses me off cause I was in the process of leaving him after my daughter I got pregnant again. Ugh! But thank you and all the ladies... I better get some rest I'll let you know how it goes
  • xFirstTimeMomxxFirstTimeMomx
    Omg. My husband says the same thing about I didn't know how out would act or I thought it wasn't a big deal. Girl go with our instincts. And good luck to you.
  • misskristinmisskristin
    edited May 2011
    @serenitysmommy I will start by saying that talking to his ex every day is way out of line. Depending on when/how the breakup went, I could understand two people still being friends, but there is NO REASON for someone to talk to an ex everyday unless they have children together, which you said they do not. I'm sorry he's being a jerk and I hope things get better. Good luck.
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    i hate that.. its always worse when they keep it from us. i mean can they really be that stupid to think that? "so u done something i wouldnt agree with and decided to lie about it to make it even worse???" i swear some men are just plain dumb and think they can get away with anything.. well good luck with what u decide to do too..
  • JerseyMommyJerseyMommy
    Yea it's time to tell him that its time to block her on fb or just Lev him alone cause they talking bout other stuff then normal friends talk about....I'm all about saving relationship but u got to put ya foot down n tell hi its either ur way or da high wat
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    @misskristin wrong person, l0l! u mean @serenitysmommy
  • misskristinmisskristin
    edited May 2011
    @ittybitty...oops, lol. I love being able to edit online :)
  • IttybittyIttybitty
    edited May 2011
    @misskristin yea, me too! l0l. i dont think people realize the edit button cause alot of people just comment again..
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