Does anyone ever feel like there baby daddy is cheating on them?

my1stbaby08my1stbaby08
edited May 2011 in Second Trimester
Lately I just feel like something is off with my boyfriend. He stops talking to me for no reason what so ever, and tells me it's not me. Plus he left the house at 11 tonight and hasn't came home and isn't answering his phone. Any advice ladies? ??

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  • momofSOONtobe7momofSOONtobe7
    Ask him where he's going and why he doesn't answer when he should be at home with you cuddling getting ready for bed!
  • my1stbaby08my1stbaby08
    He just walked out of the house and didn't say anything, and he's not answering the phone. This is my 1st baby and not his and he acts like he knows how I should be feeling all the time.
  • babyjoshiesmombabyjoshiesmom
    Im not sure, my bd isnt the type to cheat ( well i think not) but my hormones have me checking his phone every night once he sleeps. I havent seen anything suspicious, but I do notice text messages have been deleted very often. Maybe we are just paranoid cause of our hormones, or maybe they are hiding something.
  • my1stbaby08my1stbaby08
    I know my hormones are working on me.I cry some times when i know theirs nothing wrong. But he's just so selfish some times.
  • Diamonds_4Diamonds_4
    Been here, here now... I feel like it he pleads I am going crazy but out happen to me before & he just disappears & doubt respond to text messages phone calls til I tell him don't come back
  • Diamonds_4Diamonds_4
    edited May 2011
    Then he responds. Tels me he is at his boys. But I checked his phone cry I pray 4 both of us hun that its just our hormones
  • mrs_shumrs_shu
    @babyjoshiesmom if texts weren't deleted previously but they are now that means either conversations he doesn't want you to see or people. You'd think they'd go hand in hand but I know whennthings are bad with my oldest, my husband with text his mom sisterand bitch then delete them
  • Mommie_McAteeMommie_McAtee
    I say you let it go for now. Don't sit and worry because they don't care about our emotions. They always say we're over dramatic. Just keep your legs closed (meaning no sex for him) and find someone or something to occupy your time. My baby daddy has acted a complete ass for the first four months but I changed the game up. For men who are "in love" there's nothing more painful than the thought of another man raising his child an getting loving from their woman. Now my bd knows that i could give two shits about what he does now he's blowing up my phone when I'm not home, calling my job to see if I'm at work, looking over my shoulder to see who I'm texting, coming home early, staying here all day. But he's too late I'm done dealing with his bull. Instead of me chasing him now he chasing me and I enjoy it! They don't realize when their plates are full that it's enough.
  • babyjoshiesmombabyjoshiesmom
    @Mrs_shu Yea well we I have issues with his group of friends so I don't get upset I believe he deletes any conversations they may have honestly
  • Mommie_McAteeMommie_McAtee
    Sorry for the small vent but I just can't stand men now. They think that since we're pregnant by them that we have no where to go or no one wants us! Dumb asses. Please don't worry yourself let it go because when the baby arrives they will no longer be a factor
  • 5lilangels5lilangels
    I know I check his phone daily. It frustrates me we had great sex @my 12wk now we haven't had any it's been 2 wks. He works nights and comes home everynight. Its just hormones I think
  • new2_thisnew2_this
    Your suggestions helped me also..my bf doesn't leave but when I check his phone he's talking to girls on Facebook granted they're out of state but WTH?? Wats the point? I don't like the convos they're having but I haven't said anything yet just watching as it progresses...Lmao we woman are sooo funny how we're detectives and download shyt till its the right time to use the evidence lol good luck to all..Idk y its so hard for sum men to just wake up like I have a baby on the way I should be the best man I can be...makes sense to me..
  • HavingNumber4HavingNumber4
    @Mommie_McAtee I know thats right bd acting stupid now
  • snowwhitejsnowwhitej
    i know how you feel there are some days that i wake up in the middle of the night to pee and i just want to grab his phone and check it....but i stop myself i dont want that stress while im trying to go back to bed, but some days it just runs through my head non stop and while i tried to talk to him about it he just says i just want you....blah blah blah
  • Rissalee7Rissalee7
    my bf was turning me down for sex for over two weeks it honestly made me think he was cheating or jacking off or somethin that wasnt with me. previous to me hitting the i cant be on top part of pregnancy id just climb on top and take what i want. but now that he has to be on top and do most of the work we dont do it as often. he's not cheating he's just genuienly tired. he works monday-friday usually 12-16 hours a day in a iron foundry. and the other night we finally did it and he made sure he showed how much he loves/still thinks im the best thing in this whole world. i honestly think its just our hormones for the most part. but if my guy took off at 11 at night and didnt answer his phone id be gone sayin see u in court but thats just me
  • GregorysMommyGregorysMommy
    I'm Always Thinking He's Cheating! Like One Morning He Needed TO Fix AC On The Truck. He Was Gone For A Long Time, Wen I Finally Called Him He Said I'll Be There In 5 Minutes.20 Minutes Go By & I Here The Door Open, I'm So Ready To Blow Up On Him Then he Has Whataburger In His Hand For Me To Eat Before Work (; I Either Have Dreams Of Him Cheating, Or My Mom Wanting To Hurt My Baby! :/
  • jalemjalem
    i am pretty sure it is just our hormones because we are having a baby with the guy and start getting paranoid that oh no hes gonna leave me and im gonna have to do this all by my self... and as much as we say we dont need him to raise our baby we want them to be there... as for the rest of your situation he may just be stressed and need a break...
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