just need to vent ... pls if you comment dont b negative ..

kenziesmom216kenziesmom216
edited May 2011 in Just for Fun
theres so much crap going on with my fiance hes currently in jail .. me and him are good .. its just everything with him is stressing me out .. he called me today and told me something but told me not to tell his mom but im obviously going to tell his mom whats going on with him cause its his mom and she deserves to no .. im not going to keep anything from her .. so now hes going to be pist at me for telling his mom .. and its so just stressful and hard cause hes like i said hes in jail and idk when ill be able to talk to him next .. but i feel obligated to let his mom no whats going on with him as she would do the same for me .. and now i gotta come up with 2500 dollars to get him out on bail im waiting for his lawyer to call me with some more info and it just feels like this is never going to end .. o and then come to find out i may have to cancel my visit for monday cause he can only have so many visitors a day .. so that just makes it harder and i cant see him wednesdays cause im in school during his visiting hours .. but like i said pls no negativity .. pls b positive ..

Comments

  • valentinasmommyvalentinasmommy
    I personally wouldn't spend that money if there was not enough to go around.like,if you needed it for something more important.I would tell his mom whatever,its his fault that he's in there.
  • Diamonds_4Diamonds_4
    hold your head up I been there it was my last pregnancy & he was 2000 away... So I know how you feel... But just remember to do you time & think about everything in steps not all at once. With the bail if its gonna keep him out then okay get his family to help but take it from me sometimes its easier if logic kicks in its a lot of money to put up if he has other cases that will place him back & you lose your money or tie it up for a year
  • Diamonds_4Diamonds_4
    Hope this help you but plz don't stress
  • kenziesmom216kenziesmom216
    @diamonds_4 thanks . it helped a lil . just trynna figure out how ima do this and not wry so much about him being pist at me cause i told his mom .. i mean im sure they would help thts not a prolm is just us trynna figure erything out ..
  • Diamonds_4Diamonds_4
    Sometimes we have to think for them & if you managed to help his situation then he should be fine & feel you have his back no matter what... It should be fine he just wants to be out & you guys on the outside is all he has right now. So if you found something to relieve your stressed at your few months in pregnacy he should understand don't worry about him he will soon be home holding you again not even thinking about what you told his mom. It will be the last of his worries.
  • tinka1326tinka1326
    wow ... thats all very intense... i dont really have anything to say to help, but your in my thoughts and i hope everything gets easier soon xox
  • kenziesmom216kenziesmom216
    @diamonds_4 thank you so much . it made me cry . :)
  • Diamonds_4Diamonds_4
    edited May 2011
    You welcome_ & Sorry I didn't want you to cry mama
  • preggointxpreggointx
    How old is he...unless he is a minor I woudn't tell his mom if he asked me not to and I also would not pay the money either....though I would love my man that could be 2500 on the baby's new things...hope it gets better 4 u
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