always wanted to be a mommy..but now..

ashleyr0512ashleyr0512
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
I've always dreamed of having beautiful babies. Having kids was something ii always felt I was born to do. Fantasied about being pregnant...the whole nine yards...I'm six weeks and I don't have those dreamy happy feelings. I'm scared to death and feel like a huge disappointment to my parents.I'm 23 and just finished nursing school...anyone felt the same..will the happiness and excitment kick in soon

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  • mz_sandersmz_sanders
    dont worry about being a dissappointment 2 ur parents. Just relax and when u feel the baby start moving I think u will be excited again.
  • mrs_americamrs_america
    It gets better. I felt that way to. I have a really good man and everything ways going so good but I felt unhappy deprssed and wanted to run away. Its gona get better these feeling happen and hormones are to blame. Don't feel like u failed. Finishing nursing school is so hard and u finished at 23 that really good. I had to curl up in a blanket and tell my self it was going to be ok. And talking to other pregos and my mom about it really helped. My mom had it with me to. Ill pray for u. That helps to. Hang in there just like morning sickness this will pass to. Also reading about my baby and what's going on week by week helped out to.
  • nharmonygrlnharmonygrl
    @Ashleyr0512....I know how u r feeling completely...I am 24 and married to my hubby for 6 years and we planned this baby...and I'm freaking out....lol I'm sooo scared and nervous....I have anxiety to begin with and now I feel like I'm goin nutso.....it sux sooo bad....cuz u think that u shuld b happy during this time....I had a son wen I was 18 and my son past away wen he was 4 days old...full term nothing wrong my whole pregnancy....so now I'm soo scared of so many things now with this pregnancy...jus try to stay positive....I. remember goin thru this in the beginning of my pregnancy with my son also thou...and then wen I hit like the 7 month time frame...I was soo overjoyed and happy to b a mom....so jus hang in there..I feel ya grl ...I kno its hard at times...but jus remind urself..god never gives us more than we can handle...I truly believe this and I'm. Sure u will b a great mommy!
  • ashleyr0512ashleyr0512
    I feel better this am after talking to my bf all night. Poor guy he had to be up at 6 and stayed up w me until 2 lol. Over all I'm happy. I'm shocked still. Ill think about it and be like..omg there is a baby in me. I just want to be a good mom. I guess being scared already makes me one..better than not caring
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