why is my BD doing this...and what do i do?

new_mommy92new_mommy92
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
This is my first pregnancy and I am 3months pregnant. My BD is now trying to say that the baby isn't his when we both know it is. I havnt been with anybody else since I been with him so its for sure nobody elses but his. How can he deny his child like that and what can I do about it. Please help.

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  • Rissalee7Rissalee7
    how long have u been together? were u just a hookup or a gf? how old are teh two of you? could he just b scared??
  • TheTrondsons1stTheTrondsons1st
    if my hubby said that I would tell him, ok then we will get a paternity test. Cuz when it came back his it would be like a slap to the face :)
  • new_mommy92new_mommy92
    I guess you could say it was a hook up, he's 24 and I'm 18. And he could be scared but idk what would make him act like that he asked me if I wanted to have his baby and I never mentioned anything about a baby
  • july25mommytobejuly25mommytobe
    My BD did that too girl. We had been together 9 mths and I got preg. Well we broke up and got back together. After we got back 2gether he started sayin the baby wasnt his and just trash talkin me. I finally told him that if thats what he thought then fine I was raised by a single mom and when she was born we could have a paternity test done. But after that he changed and opened up and told me when his ex wife was pregnant she cheated many times and the baby wasnt his and she told him that right after she miscarried. so he was scared. He also said that cause we had tried for so long he thought maybe I cheated and got prego that way cause thats how his ex did.
  • OhsoloveableOhsoloveable
    My BD did this too ... but he only did it because his family started putting ideas in his head about all the possible ways I could've been cheating on him. I know with my BD, he is just trying in anyway possible now to not have to take responsibility for it. & not doing anything until a DNA test is his best way out for as long as he can. Maybe its the same reason with your BD but you just never know.
  • lae3lae3
    ya i had that situation with my first.. sorry girl.. and he took my verginity and chased me for a year.. before i finally gave it up.. just deal with it cause you cant change it.. hes probably just scared and looking for a wait out.. just tell him hes the one thats gonna look like a fool for wasting so much time being an idiot.. when he gets the test.. have you talked to his mom? sometimes it helps .. and sometimes it makes it worse.. any way good luck
  • momof5momof5
    Don't stress girl. A lot of us have been there. My husband said the same thing cause we were together about a month and a half and I got pregnant. Then when I got pregnant with my last son he said the same thing. I tell him all the time to get a DNA test cause these kids will come back 99.991% his and he will look like a douchebag. He still has rude comments to make every once in a while and that's ok cause I know that he is the father of both my kids.
  • new_mommy92new_mommy92
    Yea you all are right...but were not all that close. To be truthfully honest we were both drunk and it was spur of the moment I have his first name and a lot of other information but is there really anything I can do without his last name
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