abandoned...

brttnywstn14brttnywstn14
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
Does anyone else feel abandoned by their friends? I used to hang out with my friends all the time. Every weekend we would all go out. N now they don't even talk to me....like being pregnant is a disease they are gonna catch or something :( and bd goes out partying every weekend...it bothers me but i don't wanna tell him he can't go out :/ even tho he tells me i can't go anywhere! I swear if he could put me in a bubble he would :( errrr sorry...tiny vent thanks for listening!
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  • angelsmommyangelsmommy
    All my friends already have kids so we all still hang out.
  • brttnywstn14brttnywstn14
    @angelsmommy aww well that's good...ur lucky!
  • Binter03Binter03
    @brttnywstn14 I definitely understand how you feel. I feel the exact same with my friends. How old are you?
  • brttnywstn14brttnywstn14
    @binter03 im 21 how old are u?
  • 1stTime_Mommy1stTime_Mommy
    Oh def, dats why I'm always on pregly or fb I have nothing to do anymore! Idk whether to be mad or sad tho if dey rlly cared dey wld try to contact me but dey dnt I've tried but after being ignored and all dat I just gave up and just make da baby my main focus; what else can I do =/
  • Binter03Binter03
    @brttnywstn14 I'm 21 too must be that age they're just into going out I guess
  • brttnywstn14brttnywstn14
    @1sttime_mommy yea i know what u mean...idk what to do with myself anymore :(
  • brttnywstn14brttnywstn14
    @binter03 yea must be....it sucks tho :( right when i need love n support all my friends ditch me :(
  • Binter03Binter03
    It definitely sucks they only want to hang out in the day when they have nothing better to do it seems
  • brttnywstn14brttnywstn14
    Atleast they want to hangout at all! I have to like beg my friends to hangout....
  • brttnywstn14brttnywstn14
    @binter03 forgot to tag u lol
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    I'm 19 and it seems like my friends never wanna hang out either. They're always working or going to concerts or parties. They also tell me that my life is over and I'm having a baby too soon. Huge peeve of mine. My life isn't over, a new chapter has begun.
  • Binter03Binter03
    @brttnywstn14 haha its ok I do all the time. And I guess thats true I guess I just feel used idk. I just try to spend time with my bd and family to stay positive
  • Binter03Binter03
    @victoriaB thats awful your life is definitely not over just changing...in a good way though
  • 1stTime_Mommy1stTime_Mommy
    edited May 2011
    I've seen all my "truest" friends just forget my number and then get mad at me, I can't drink, never smoked and I dnt think I wld look so cute with my belly at a club haha so its like all dose times we needed each other dnt over power da times dat we cld party..i try not to look at it as such a horrible thing it's brought me and my fam. Closer and made me realize how much ppl take advantage of yu when yu can do all dose things, just keep yur head up as much as possible dat baby will be here for da rest of yur life while everyone else disappears! =) yu always got me girl<3 its hard believe me I know I get lonely as hell
  • angiefaceangieface
    I moved to a diffrent state I have no friends here. Well my xbest friend of 17.years lives here but since,i moved here she has been much less than a friend to me. Her new husband and herself have been trying to concieve and want a boy really bad. I have three boys and will have,my fourth soon. Everytime I mention,my pregnancy she acts like a total bitch.I am high risk and she wouldnt even give me a ride to a very important appointment. She is a bartender at a very trendy bar and when shes not working shes at bars drinking.
  • brttnywstn14brttnywstn14
    @victoriab aww that sucks! What jerks! Ur life is def not over!!!

    @binter03 yea i know what u mean by feeling used....:( it sucks really bad but that's why all us pregly preggos gotta stick together :)

    @1sttime_mommy yea u and @jenniiee are my best pregly friends :) it was like perfect timing when we all met :) i always read ur posts on facebook makes me feel like we've been friends this whole time :)

    @angieface omg! I hate girls like that! If you lived closer i would have taken u to ur dr appt and i don't even know you! Lol but don't worry girly we are always here for ya :)

  • bradford2bradford2
    All my friends disappeared during my first pregnancy, would not hang out. unless my boyfriend was there for some reason or they would show up at night and party with him and his brother his mom house was the party house. When we moved I felt a little better made a new neighbor friend and my boyfriend got a job so we made new friends that way. When my daughter was born, my husband left for basic training and I had a baby sitter on the weekends once she was 3 months old, guess it was way of coping for about 4 weekends. All my friends came around because I could party again, and didn't think twice about it. My husband came home for christmas and I became pregnant again, I didn't tell anyone till I was 10 weeks, but I stopped going out on the weekends and what do you know I haven't seen one of my friends since then and I am 22 weeks now. Worst part my husband hasn't been home since January 4 for AIT. It sucks but I guess its good shows me my friends and plus getting me ready for the moving far away. I do know it get lonely I aam20 I sometimes think it is a age thing. Who knows. If you need someone to talk to just message me on here.
  • brttnywstn14brttnywstn14
    @bradford2 yea i know all my friends will come around again once i have the baby....its really sad tho cause people you've been friends with a long time just like leave and forget all about you. Its def a learning experience! You find out who ur true friends are....but i think ur right about the age thing we both are still so young our friends just don't understand. But yea same to you if u ever need just some one to talk to im here! :)
  • 1stTime_Mommy1stTime_Mommy
    :)<3 oh def same here! I'm glad I found yu and @Jenniiee
  • Jess8D7Jess8D7
    Meet mommys at classes. That's what I plan on doing :) im very far from home and now picking up again to move to AZ. Where my husband's family is at..
  • brttnywstn14brttnywstn14
    @jess8d7 i would but the place that does mommy classes is closed till july cause the lady who teaches all the classes is having surgery
  • Jess8D7Jess8D7
    @brttnywstn14 try looking up groups for moms! Some places should hold free classes.
  • JenniieeJenniiee
    Awww I feel the same way about you two girls ! :) @ brttnywstn14 & @1sttime_mommy
  • bradford2bradford2
    @brttnywstn14 :-) thanks. I hope moving and finding new friends will good because I would be looking for friends with kids more so than ones who don't at this point.
  • brttnywstn14brttnywstn14
    @bradford2 yea it will probably be alot easier to get new friends with kids when you move....where are u moving to?
  • angelsmommyangelsmommy
    @brttnywstn14 where are you from?
  • bradford2bradford2
    Washington state
  • bradford2bradford2
    @brttnywstn14 forgot to tag you
  • brttnywstn14brttnywstn14
    @angelsmommy im from california :)

    @bradford2 o i heard its beautiful up there :)
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