sex sucks! it doesnt feel good anymore & is painful now

clope18clope18
edited May 2011 in Second Trimester
I'm 23w4d & sex isn't the same anymore. It hurts, & I can't even get in the mood or finish :/ Is/has anyone else gone through this? Does it go away? Why am I like this all of a sudden?
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  • AKmommyAKmommy
    Same exact issue :( I'm 28 weeks but it still hasn't changed.. can't wait to not be pregnant anymore and be normal again. I feel bad for the hubby
  • clope18clope18
    @AKmommy yeah I feel bad for Hubby too...I always complain that it hurts & tell him just to hurry up & finish. I'm glad he understands & doesn't get upset though. I can't wait until its normal again...I hope it doesn't stay like this forever :/
  • caroline8_pcaroline8_p
    Ditto! 26w
  • westnbabywestnbaby
    my wife is the same way :(
  • loveleebbyloveleebby
    I'm 17wks 5d and we finally started having sex again and it feels good but after I'm sore (I know tmi lol) for days after :(
  • firsttimemamafirsttimemama
    I hate it as well. 26 weeks tomorroe
  • firsttimemamafirsttimemama
    Tomorrow ***
  • mommabee13mommabee13
    Through my whole pregnancy I haven't really wanted sex but my bf asks like everyday, and if I do say no he doesn't get mad just acts all sad and pouty..he says he doesn't but I can tell. So I usually have sex or give him a handjob...Polly 5 or more times a week
  • _Kaykes_Kaykes
    Sex is painful! And I'm never in the mood! 19.5 weeks
  • ChristinaChristina
    I'm just not interested in it anymore! I told my baby daddy how bout we play a game and see how fast you can finish LOL at least he's not mopey if he gets it a few times a week
  • ashesashes
    Same here. Plus my bd and I haven't been together for too long and he might as well be a virgin...we are never on the same wavelength so it just never works anyway. Depressing even when I think about it.
  • xFirstTimeMomxxFirstTimeMomx
    Ya my husband says he understands then complains about it to his guy friends or to me and makes me feel shitty :/ why can't men be the one to have babies??
  • Maddysmom16Maddysmom16
    try different positions while going it and if it hurts tell him he should understand
  • jellybelly1015jellybelly1015
    edited May 2011
    TMUS, but it is so not the same. We tried from behind cause we heard it would take pressure off tummy and all, but it didn't work... Couldn't get in, we tried several times... It's like my v is closed or something... Wth??? Anyone had this issue? I feel like a freak.
  • a_wagnera_wagner
    edited May 2011
    I'm the same way and have been for almost my whole pregnancy. My hubby is starting to like that I want this baby out tho cause he's starting to get it regularly just cause I want our baby. I'm 37 weeks tomorrow. But I totally understand how you feel @Christina its like the only time in life when u wish your bd would be quick and finish. Any other time it would suck
  • FirstTimeDaddyFirstTimeDaddy
    edited May 2011
    my gf is 24 weeks. n she isnt in the mood as much anymore. but when she is its good. n she enjoys it. but after a while. cuz im not a one minute man she tells me to hurt up cuz by then she is saying that its hurting.
  • blissmarie23blissmarie23
    I have been in the same boat most of my pregnancy. We've had to try several different positions. Some are better than others.
  • bwhite55019bwhite55019
    It hurts me too!
  • melodyamelodya
    I'm 15 weeks and I'm the opposite. I want it all the time. Try reverse cowgirl you might like it better! I only don't want it when I'm being a crazy emo bitch & trying to be mean to my husband. Did anal (I know tmi) the other day & it was great but made my stomach hurt so probably gonna hold off. I do feel like a bit if an elephant seal bit oh well I'm not having to look at myself haha. Good luck ladies!
  • jessm22jessm22
    Try lots of lube
  • dimpl3sdimpl3s
    I dnt have that prob w/ this pregnancy but w/ my 1st child i did.i got my sex drive bac around 8 months& it got me n trouble.thats how my water broke!i was so embarassed when i got to the hospital.
  • EdubsbabyEdubsbaby
    Yeah, same here. It hurts and it's almost like he doesn't fit. Weird, but he is kinda big and now we can't. I've tried all the positions they suggest and it hurts or is very uncomfortable. I'm 26 weeks and we've probably had sex 4 times since February. Poor guy I feel so bad.
  • toaderflytoaderfly
    I always have to pee extremely bad in the middle
  • mommys1stbundlemommys1stbundle
    I'm 23wks and its not good for me right now either. Its not painful but All the things that used to make me go crazy (in a good way) only seem to annoy me now. My bf is very patient and trys to find new things but I just get frustrated and turned off.
  • imanimom2011imanimom2011
    I'm 32 weeks and the last two times me and bd had sex I started bleeding and it hurt so much I had to tell him to stop, and I was the one who woke him up trying to get some.
  • imanimom2011imanimom2011
    I'm 32 weeks and the last two times me and bd had sex I started bleeding and it hurt so much I had to tell him to stop, and I was the one who woke him up trying to get some.
  • BeardreamsBeardreams
    Hate having sex lately. Sometimes in deep positions I can feel my entire uterus move up. Anyone find that? Its weird and almost scares me..
  • tinka1326tinka1326
    With my first pregnancy I was like that, completely lost my mojo... but this time round I haven't lost it only decreased a little. I think it makes it worse for men because there is always one friend who's gf wanted it constantly through pregnancy so poor guys think they knock us up and we will turn into sex freaks lol.It is soooo good once bubs is out and everything is back to normal, goodluck ladies
  • Jensensmommy15Jensensmommy15
    I'm never in the mood my poor hubby asks all the time but my hips always start to hurt n I'm not comfortable :(
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