I dont know what to do!

SkylamesaSkylamesa
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
I moved out of state almost 3months ago, I have never been away from my mom, siblings and grandma. I moved to get away from the drama. Let me sum it up, my stepdad was abusive mentally, emotionally, physically and sexually. My mom stayed w him. My mom has also been abusive just not sexually. I tried to just get over everything, but my family uses people. If you do something they dont like than they get pissed, but my mom can lie, write bad checks get kicked out of every place and its ok. my stepdad cheats on her shows his 15yr old son the naked picture of the girl and she still stays. My hubby had been great he does so much for his family, well 2 yrs ago he lost his job and he thought if he could go the casino with 20 bucks he could make it into more. Well he got addicited and he spent are bill money and he started lying to cover it all up well I had to borrow like 2 grand from mu grandma. I ended up finding out after we were getting kicked out of our home. We split but I took him back cause everyone makes mistakes. He was a hard worker a greay dad and treated me great plus we had been together for 7yrs married for 5. Well my grandma has not forgiven him and I just found out that she is still talking crap about him and I confronted her and she tells me if I dont drop it she will write my boys and I off. And she told my mom and my bbf that whay my stepdad did isnt as bad as what my husband did. Its all about the money. So my thing is my family isnt much of a family my mom never calls she doesnt even call to talk to her only grandkids, but she puts up these post on facebook of how she misses her daughter and grandkids. Its so peopke think she is a greay person when she is the scum on the bottom of my shoe. My dad is dead and I dont have much family , but I dont feel like the family I have is anythibg worth saving. They cause me stress and make me depressed. Should I just walk away?

Sorry so long...

Comments

  • FateFate
    There comes a time in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget the bad, and focus on the good. So love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living. ♥
  • garagebandfangaragebandfan
    I think @fate nailed this one!! Its hard to walk away because its family but sometimes its better to walk away!
  • SmgibbsSmgibbs
    I'm so sorry! That really sucks. I just met my grandmother a few years ago because she was on her death bed. She didnt live far only an hour away. I don't know my dad and my mom cut her family out because of the drama and abuse. You need to do what You think is best for you and your kids! You only Have one life and it shouldn't be full of BS! I miss that we don't have a close family but my brother and sisters and I are all having kids and loving our new growing family. My mom says she is the happiest ever!
  • SkylamesaSkylamesa
    Thanks ladies! It is hard since I have 4 siblings between 18 and 7yrs of age. I am close to the 3 oldest as I was the one they thought raised them. I feel like I want to walk away , but I dont want my mom to keep them from me. However they dont even call me either. Its so hard because what if someone dies and than I regret moving on... My mom brain washed me into thinking my real dad was so bad and I never gave him a fair chance and he died and now I will never know. Sorry my post are long and I ramble, this pregnancy has made me depressed and my family just rather bitch and cause drama instead of being their for me. My hubby and friends say to let them go cause im always their for them and their never their for me. I always wanted a big clise family guess I just have instill that into my kids.
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