I'm just saying that it doesn't matter the back story if you and your SO are throwing punches you will go to jail too...I wouldn't want to be in jail ever let alone while your pregnant! If its an abusive destructive relationship then you need to leave, your not doing yourself or your child any favors by staying...what if he ever hit your kid? It's better for the parents to not be together then to fight especially like that in front of kids
@jannellesmommie, girlllll you want to hurt him bad? Leave him. Don't let him touch you, PERIOD. Don't let him have a hand in raising your innocent child. Youre no longer just representing yourself, youre going to show a child how to live and survive in this world and as far as I'm concerned the biggest gift you could give your him/her is the gift of NOT having to deal with or learn from a man who has no respect for you or his child. You say you did him the favor of standing by him when you found out you were pregnant with his child, AFTER he already beat you? He doesnt deserve your favors.. he talks shit about your mother and has previously beaten the mother of his own child? What makes you think he's not going to take it out on you and the baby once it's born? Youre better than him. AAAND look how hes making you stoop to his stupid violent level.. be Brave and Strong!
@janellesmommie ps i know its easier said than done but you can bank on the fact that it WONT get easier and hes not going to treat you better because youre having his child. Youve got the support of your pregly family if no one else..
Omg your very lucky he never hit you back! By staying with him your enabling his behaviour to make it wors you have stooped to his level Its very unhealthy. If your gonna stay with him yous both have to get some counselling so you can build on a healthy relationship and set a good example for your child. I personally would leave but that's not young to happen. So please get help before it turns out for the worse.
I'm so sorry he did that to you but that just means you gotta get the heck out while he's not abusing you because once tht baby comes you don't want hiim to harm him/her. If you have no helpful family/friends you can go to a womens shelter. I know it doesn't seem like the most desireable place to be but I've been in your shoes and you gotta do what you gotta do.
yea maybe It wasnt right for what I did but felt right n I have no regrets I just apologize for breakin his nose n hes not violent wit 3 yr old daughter nor he has hit her I know for a fact he wont hit our daughter . We talked today n decided to go get counseling because he wants to make it work n I decided to get help even if we dont end up together at least get along for our daughter im not perfct but I wont say im the worst n im willin to get help. Everyone can grow n learn from bad events in there life n I wasnt protecting myself when I got pregnant wit my unborn n I am happy theres a reason y im expecting our daughter n im happy god bless me i have no regrets ...
Me and my bd had a domestic violence incident 3 yrs ago and its because he was an alcoholic but now he goes to aa and since I've been pregnant we get along the baby is making him mature and more responsible
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Its very unhealthy. If your gonna stay with him yous both have to get some counselling so you can build on a healthy relationship and set a good example for your child. I personally would leave but that's not young to happen. So please get help before it turns out for the worse.