She cant force u too. U should tell her u really want this baby and u took the chance of getting pregnant so ur going to do what u have too. Does she think she'll b the one raising the baby?
I am 17 and ya she kind of thinks she would b the one taking care of the baby but my bf and I plan on moving out b4 the baby even comes and I tell her she won't have to take care of my baby and I don't want her to I want to b the best mom I can be! She is threatening now to kick me out if I do not abort
Sweetie. This is ur baby. Plp do it everyday...single...young..poor..old..rich...if you're under 18 the second u had a + pregnancy test u became an adult in the eyes of the law so she can't MAKE u. Its ur decision and what u feel right with. U have to live with it..not her
Your age does not say anything about the type mommy u will be. My sister got pregnant at 17. She is the best mommy I know and her son is nothing short of perfect.
When I was 18 I got pregnant with my boyfried of 4 years, we moved to fla (from boston) together and were completly on Our own. When I told my mother she went completly crazy and made it seem like I had no other option except to abort. before I could even think about it I was making the appointment, she promised to pay for it and come to fla to be with.me when I had it done (we had no family or longtimefriends there at the time, just us 2). She paid for it, but then didnt show up. I had to do it alone, with my bf and all I wanted was another girl there. To make it worse, when I went back for the chevk up they didnt get it all and I had to go through it again. I think about that baby all the time and how it could have been different. I guess what im saying is no matter what you think is the best what you want to do, because you dont want to be living in regret because of a decision someone else made for you. Goodluck
Only do what you think is the best, make sure you make your own decision. Part of me is glad I did it, because I got to further my education and do so many things I wouldnt have been able to. But I always think about the baby and wish I could have him or her with me now....
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good luck hun!