Anyone good with dream interpretations???
I'm seeking some help about some dreams of my childhood bestfriend who passed last year. if anyone is knowledgeable about this plz dont hesitate to respond. I'll give all the details but its been weighing on me so heavily today that im digging for advice.
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A few weeks before I found out I was pregnant this time, I had another strange dream. It was just me standing over a bassinet & looking down @ a beautiful baby girl dressed in a pink dress...I had no idea I was pregnant but I tested the next day & got a big negative...Same dream happened a week later & I tested again & got a big positive!
I don't think you should be upset about dreaming of your friend. She's coming visit you & want's you to know she's ok & that she's still around you. If you feel like she's saying things for you to tell her mother, then she's trusting that you will relay her messages. Maybe she want's her mother to know she's ok & she knows that you are the one that needs to be there to comfort her...There's a reason that she's telling you things, you just need to open up & not be scared or upset:) I'm not an expert by any means but I hope my experiences help ease your mind a little...I've had other dreams too but they would take up even more time & space! I think this is probably long enough already:)
thank u for sharing that. I think it really is her saying something and trying to put me at ease about her death that she really is okay. I worry about what happened to her a lot... everyday she's somewhere in my mind. its frightening how much my dreams correlate with what's going on with her mom and im glad I spoke with her today because it really seemed to lift her spirits. part of me feels like her soul can't fully rest so she's lingering for her mother... I dont know im only assuming and my mom isn't making me feel any better because now she wants our house blessed and for me to tell her if she comes back in my dreams that she mustn't come back but she's not trying to scare me... only reassuring me and showing me she's having fun... idk. its a heavy bittersweet feeling. I dont quite know how to feel about it right now...
im trying to figure out the message but I see similarities in the dreams and what's reality for her mother. I think its for me to tell her mom to kind of relax cause in each she says she doesn't wanna go to her mom and leave her again to make her upset all over again. my heart breaks for that woman... she's really so broken and trying so hard to stay strong and I feel like that's what is keeping her spirit from fully going on... I hope she understands my fear though... I've never experienced anything such as this and its overwhelming me... I love and miss her but damn...
I wish I knew what happened but I never asked her mom. I dont feel comfortable. I know at one time when we were about 15 she suffered from an eating disorder that was really bad and I dont think she ever recovered but she was always GORGEOUS. photos before her death you would never associate her having any problems. All I know is her mom found her in the room unconscious but just a few hours before she was on facebook talking to her friends and was with her boyfriend that same night. I honestly dont know. it literally happened out of the blue....
ok this is gonna be long. The first dream I had she came to my house and said she had a two day pass from heaven but didnt want me to tell her mom because she would be sad for her to leave and she just wanted to hang out with her friends and party. I didnt tell her mom but I told my mom about it and she ended up informing her mom without me knowing. So when she was leaving she was hanging out the sunroof of a Hummer with her friends on her way to the party and my mom and I were standing at the drive way telling her bye when I hear her mom out of no where yelling her name over and over crying and asking her why wouldn't she tell her that she was here? So she looks at me and says this is why I didnt want her to know I was leaving or here but she wasn't upset or anything....
so the following week I have another ddream that she had another pass from heaven and she decided to spend all her time with her mom and on her last day her mom threw a party. So as im walking up to the door I see a man walking out with some pieces of small furniture and I turn to watch him and notice more laying on the side of the curb... I walk in and try questioning her mom about her giving things away but she ignored me and just kept going on that she didn't want anyone to go in my friends room because she wanted everything to be her last touch and no one else's. So im standing in the doorway and looking into her bedroom so I can remember her and overhear my friend fussing in the bathroom while she's fixing her makeup. so I ask her what's wrong and she says she's upset that her mom keeps giving things away and everytime she comes back she sees less and less. I dont remember the rest of that dream...
last night I had the longest most vivid dream of them all. Im walking past my kitchen and notice her by my pool wall in a pretty purple shirt and run out asking her what she's doing there and she smiled and said remember I told you I'd be back. so as we head in the house I notice she's with a while group of hee friends and they're all really attractive and happy but I dont remember speaking with any of them. we were all over the house just having fun like we used to when we were small and I kept grabbing and feeling her to make sure she wasn't gonna disappear and it felt so real. so I ask her about going to her mom and she says she doesn't.want to go because when she leaves her it breaks her moms heart and she didnt want to make her mom go through that pain again. So I stand snack as her and her friends get ready for a party that night and as they're about to leave her and a really pretty girl who looked like shed lost all her hair came walking down the hall together smiling and she said she would see me later and they all got on a huge tour bus that was parked out front...
my fingers hurt but I think I got most of it. its like there's always some party when I dream of her. idk but she's so happy and pretty. idk its just bittersweet to me.
its funny but the week I had the dream of her giving things away was when her mom said she started giving things in the garage away... its all just a little too real for me and I just want it to stop because im nervous. one part of me isn't afraid and the other is telling me that it shouldn't continue and she needs to go on... her mom is so heartbroken though and I think its stopping her from really being released if that's possible... I dont know. I've been prayed for by my moms friend and according to my mom its not a good thing so that's heightening my stress about this... ibtook it really hard when I found out she passed and this is uprooting some feelings I thought I'd conquered...
im gonna try tonight to speak aloud to her and hope its not taken the wrong way... I donno I still feel like there's so much unanswered about this but I may be making more of this than is necessary... thank u for taking the time to speak with me on this. that brought me more peace than u know. im kinda tired of hearing my mom saying she's not at rest and yada yada...
funny thing is since she died I've always wondered and worried if she's at peace. I donno how to describe my curiosity but for me her death was so sudden and still a mystery and I always wondered was she in pain, is "the other side" a scary place for her but they're always just passing thoughts. I maybe brought this upon myself by worrying about her so much but I thought it was a normal process of grieving. BUT the fact that my dreams correlate with her mother is making it seem as though they're really meant for her mom just coming thru me. its like its easier for her to leave me than it is to leave her mother because leaving her mom is too stressful. Lord knows im just a confused mess about this whole thing...
thank u so much... its so much more relieving to be told that than to hear that she's a lingering spirit or that its not actually her... I see that she's happy and im glad about it so hopefully my last dream will be THE last dream... I can't take this stress : -/
that's a realistic and wholesome approach that im comfortable to accept... im still dealing with her being gone and I know her mom is in a standstill battle. I swear my heartbreaks for that woman its indescribable... I just hope this stops soon. Thank U for taking the time to comment on this post cause I need as much posotivity that I can get at this time to be able to sleep tonight. lol
I did tell her mom today no more giving away their things lol and hopefully she listens. After her mom told me she was giving things away I was like OK THIS IS REAL. lol. I hope though that she is at peace and as much as I love and miss her I really could do with out these dreams lol. Her mom needs them more than me : -) She's gonna send me to the looney house if she doesn't quit it
that's what I plan to do if it continues and before I go to bed I plan to ask that she doesn't do it anymore. If she can read emotions then she knows that I miss the hell out of her and wish it could've been different before she just died so sunddenly... I really pray that it stops... now I dont think im gonna have a good nights rest for a while because my anxiety level is so high. I dont mess with stuff like this at all. I normally stay far far far from it.
yeah I know she isn't trying to scare me at all but its just the thought of what's going on that scared me lol. ahhh too much for my little preggo brain!
idk if this may be a dumb ? but what makes me open and how can I make sure I dont do it again so I dont keep sending out the impression that I welcome this feeling. its too much for me.