so depressed and stressed:(

briffyg89briffyg89
edited May 2011 in Third Trimester
I am 35weeks and 2 days and I'm so depressed and miserable... ready to get dis ova wit gosh I cry just about everyday its so hard fa me rite now. .. then me and my baby daddy dnt talk at all And it hurt and I really want him to be there at the hospital wit me WHEN I go n labor dat mean so much to me.... I just got a lot on my mind dnt KNW wat to do preggo ladies anybody else feel depressed and ready to get dis ova wit:( dnt KNW WHEN da last time I actually smiled.....

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  • 4senough4senough
    Me. Im 35 weeks. Hubby is there for me, and even planning to deliver the baby himself with the midwife. He's understanding when my emotions get the best of me, but I can't shake the depression. I feel awful about it, but im starting to feel anger towards baby, I want it out so bad. I don't know what to do either, and this is my fourth child. Im gonna talk to my midwife, maybe she will strip my membranes a little early. If she's not ready, it wont work, so I think it would be safe. I am so afraid of having bad postpartum depression with this baby, I want to breastfeed, but if I need meds, I wont be able to. I don't want to be mad at her if I don't get to do what I want to do for her. Sorry so long, im afraid to talk to family or friends about how I really feel.
  • so_effin_sweetso_effin_sweet
    I been depressed thru-out my whole entire pregnancy. As of right now I dnt realykno if bd cares for me or not. He kept throwin me and my 5 yr old out and calls me all types of names for unknown reasons and I'm jus so unhappy.... ur not alone mama. Jus gotta b strong.
  • briffyg89briffyg89
    @4senough girl I KNW how u feel for real I feel da same way and I just dnt KNW how to shake dis feeling tear bout to cry now......
  • briffyg89briffyg89
    @so_effin_sweet girl I KNW I'm trying to be strong to but its so so hard..... I'm totally confused dnt whether to go left or right then dnt have nobody to talk to I just be holding it n
  • so_effin_sweetso_effin_sweet
    That's y I love comming on tis site cuz I used 2 think I was the only one who felt like this pregnancy was tearing me aprt. But when I read about the other females and all thesupport and great advice up here I feel better cuz I kno I'm not alone. And I refocus mysel on my daughter n unborn son. We gon be alright boo.
  • briffyg89briffyg89
    @so_effin_sweet no u not da only one girl.... and Yes we gne be alright once these beautiful kids come n da world.... wish u luck huni and I hope it get better fa u
  • imanimom2011imanimom2011
    Me and my bd breakup and makeup all they time. I feel like I have to do shit on my own and was feeling depressed for about a month. Things will get better
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    I'm 15w & I feel so depressed right now.. I was diagnosed with depression last year & it just comes & goes...Idk what to do.. I have an appt tomorrow so hopefully seeing my baby will make me smile.. this is so hard on me right now.. :'(
  • salsabiasalsabia
    My preemie came 9 weeks early. She's been in hosp for 3 weeks. I pump breastmilk every 3 hours day and night for her. Just had my baby shower today. I do not have her room ready. Been too sore from c section to do anything. And Babies Daddy lives 5 hours away and isn't here to help me. Im stressed to the max and cry all the time. I can smell my baby when im at home and it makes me cry.
  • briffyg89briffyg89
    @imanimom2011 girl I hope so cuz I dnt like being depressed:(...... @happiestmommietobe girl I'm depressed all the time I have to catch myself its rough on me I dnt KNW wat TO do....... @salsabia I KNW how u feel my sis had her baby and he had to stay in da nicu for a week she couldn't handle leaving him I hope she gets better huni which I KNW she is.....
  • ladistacksladistacks
    I'm 35 wks n my bd is military n jus left 4 his new permanent duty station 2 prepare 4 deployment. N as of rite now I dnt even kno exactly where we stand. If we're even 2gether or not. I've been layin around cryin n super depressed. Bein prego def doesn't help wen there's so much goin on but 1nce its over n these babies finally bless us wit their beautiful faces I'm sure we'll all b able 2 finally crack that smile n feel some happiness finally. :)
  • briffyg89briffyg89
    @ladistacks Awwww I can imagine how u feel huni.... yea once our babies get here we will have no care n da world dey will make us smile.... when is yo due date
  • ladistacksladistacks
    @briffyg89 I'm due June 30th but the docs dnt think ill go that long since its my 3rd but we'll see!! I'm rdy 4 a great big smile!
  • tinka1326tinka1326
    oh ladies im so sorry your all having such a hard time. i wish you all the love and best of luck with your lives and babies
  • briffyg89briffyg89
    @ladistacks me to girl cuz I dnt smile very often..... @tinka1326 thanks huni and da same to u.......
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