They took my baby out yesterday & i had a d&c...

edited May 2011 in Pregnant
Im feeling terrible... They took out my baby yesterday & Im cramping so bad that pain meds aren't working & they should cuz i never take them... They told me that i would bleed for about a week but i only bled yesterday & now i stopped... Is that normal???. Im feeling terrible... Im in so much pain & on so much med for pain & anxiety that i can't even feel my emotions... I feel numb... I just wish this wasn't happening... Instead of walking around with my baby inside me & looking and feeling preg... Im rolled up in my bed in physical & emotional pain... They told me that my precious was 16 weeks in size when i lost him... One moment Im preg & the next... Its all over ;(... They told me that my precious was 16 weeks in size when i lost him... We new he was gona be a big baby cuz at 7 weeks ultrasound he was 5 weeks bigger & healthy as can be... Daddy was almost 12lbs at birth... Doc said he will b a big baby ;(...

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  • Im so sorry sweetie, i prayed an hoped everything would be ok, I cant imagin how u feel but I pray that u get thru this an keep pushing an convice again, &have another healthy baby (if that is what you)
  • I am so sorry. Just remember that this was not your fault. Love & hugs <3
  • Sorry for ur loss it will be easy to get preggo now try again hun
  • sorry to hear of your loss. Stay strong and know that in time things will get better. You will feel better. I wish you the best.
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  • Im sorry for your loss, I will keep you in my prayers
  • Oh goodness, I'm so sorry! But yes what you are going through is totally normal. I bled for longer though, but bleeding varies from person to person. Pain meds really don't do much, and the doctors don't seem to understand that. Prayers for you!
  • I'm sorry for your loss! Be gentle on yourself.
  • Im sorry.... Get well soon
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  • Im sorry to hear bout ur loss u will b added to my nightly prayers
  • Sorry for the loss of Ur baby sending thoughts with u
  • sorry for ur loss :( i hope ur bf is more understanding now n cheering u up. did doc confirm baby was really a boy???
  • I hadto go through it too. I know it doesn't seem like it right now but it will get better and u will get pregnant again. I was so devisdated...that hubbby n I tried like a month after and I thought we were never going to het preg again but it took a year and one month and we did. Im glad now that it took about a year tho bc I had time to heal emotionally gl and I know u will pull through if I can n e body can
  • Thanks eveyy1...
    @preggointx... Why do u think it will b easier 4 me 2 get prrg now... Im real down... I don't want it 2 take another 15 months 2 get preg...
  • @oregonmama... That must have been hard... No we chose not to... We didn't want to remember him like that...
  • @mrsthompson34... He don't like to talk about it no more & he's keeping our lives the same as possible... He can b so funny & make me laugh sometimes or he can b a jerk... But that's normal for him
  • @mrsthompson34... I asked but my boyfriend told the Dr no not to tell us... He said it was goin to make it harder for me... I told him either why boy or girl its gone hurt... He said yes but then I'll want 2 name our baby & it will just make things harder... He said we have to learn to accept gods plan & just keep trying
  • @babysolorio even tho this pregnancy didnt go as planned I think what @preggointx meant was that you are way way way fertile after a miscarriage or after giving birth. Not saying to get at it right away , take your time by all means! But thats something to think about
  • @hubz1stbaybay... I don't want to wait that long & want it to happen asap... Im not gettin any younger... Im 36... The longer i wait the longer the risk... It took us 15-16 months this time... The Doc said on Thursday that we can start tryin right now... That Im perfectly healthy
  • @honestlyhopeful... We have talked about it & we both want to keep trying and as soon as possible... I met with the Doc on Thursday.... 1 week after surgery & he cleared us to start trying right away if that what we want... He said if Im emotional ready & we want to he doesn't see any reason to wait 2 months cuz Im healthy as can be & i recovered quit from surgery & did well... I heard that ur suppose to be more fertile after but is it true cuz is so why does it take some people over a year to get preg... For example hubz1stbaybay... Any ideas on how to make it easier
  • Im so sorry...u are in my prayers.
  • @babysolorio I have no idea in her case but it is proven that most women are really fertile because their hormones are still high. just dont get your hopes up too high every month. But have faith that it WILL happen. Me and my boyfriend tried for about 10 months and finally got pregnant but I had a miscarriage. We weren't so happyyyy but agen we occasionally tried, we got pregnant the next month and a half almost 2 months after the miscarriage. Every woman is different. and I dont want to tell you to not be sad over this mishap but being happyyyy helps you get pregnant. I'm just trying to offer you ways to help. I hope all turns out well. Just remember: it WILL happen!! <3
  • because every book I read said u r very fertile after m/c and many stories I have read on pregly indicated the same thing
  • Wow I'm sooo sorry girl so how far along were u when u found out u lost the baby or it sstop growing or What???
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